By popular demand since the last survivor round I’m gonna do Up 2 Me survival poll but, since this album has a lot of tracks I’ll eliminate 2 tracks at a time
I’m going to comment every Up 2 Me track and the song with the least upvotes will be eliminated TWO TRACKS everyday until there’s only one track remaining. So upvote the tracks you want to stay in, and downvote the tracks you want to be eliminated.

STAYED THE SAME AND HEY WERE VOTED OUT

1. Cmon
   
2. Morning Mudd
   
3. Got Rich
   
4. Lët ya know (OUT)❌
   
5. Stayëd the same (OUT)❌
   
6. Gët Busy
   
7. Rokstar
   
8. Trëndy Way
   
9. Swërved it
   
10. Ya Ya
    
11. U could tëll
    
12. Factz
    
13. Back on ëm
    
14. Hëy (OUT)❌
    
15. Turban
    
16. Twizzy Rich
    
17. Told ya
    
18. Monëy so Big
    
19. Dëserve it
    
20. Kant Change
    
21. Callin më (OUT)❌
    
22. Lying 4 fun
    

Hi everyone,
I wanted to share my journey and reflections on my recently completed upgrade for a 2013 Mac Pro. I was hesitant committing to the upgrade path, knowing full well it’s rather limited and difficult, especially coming from a 5,1.
Never-the-less, the ‘trashcan’ always held a special place in my heart since it’s release, and I always dreamed of having one occupying a spot on my desk.
So, in August last year I picked one up from an eBay auction for $700 AUD. The model was the 6 Core 32GB RAM and D500 GPU. It also came with two Thunderbolt 2 cables. I decided that I would take my time over 6-12 months researching upgrading.
My first decision was to knock out the ‘easy’ upgrades. This consisted of:
Additional 32GB RAM for $45 AUD 1TB NVME storage and adapter for $112 AUD
The stock 256GB Storage is criminally small, and although Apple’s intent was for modular external storage, that just didn’t happen to the extent that in 2023 it’s a viable storage option for everyday use. Worse still was their decision to make the internal drive proprietary, but luckily adapters exist to swap in standard drives. This drastically reduced the price.
However, the removed drive is pretty much useless, as to my knowledge there isn’t a cost effective bi-directional adapter to enable the drive to be repurposed in an enclosure or other machine (apart from a similar year MacBook). So, I now have a useless 256GB drive.
“Can’t innovate my ass.”
Next up was the CPU. There was plenty of debate over the ‘best’ CPU, with contenders being a mix of 8, 10 and 12 core. I decided to go with the e5-2697 12 core from a good deal on eBay, picking it up for $50 AUD.
Installation was - well - no harder or easier from what I anticipated. Plenty of reading and researching forecasted that it is a long, slow, and fiddly process, all of which proved true. However, patience and pair of careful hands made the job relatively textbook. (That final CPU bracket though!) All up, the tear down, installation and reassembly took about 1.5 hours.
On reassembly, I was successfully rocking a 12 Core, 64BG, 1TB trash can. No boot up issues or any temperature discrepancies. It is worth pointing out that the single core scores are slightly lower, which makes sense. However, the multicore score is drastically improved (almost double).
My last hurdle with the GPU. Knowing full well I was stuck with another proprietary limitation, I turned to eGPUs. Although never officially supported on the Mac Pro 2013, there was plenty of evidence that using a T2>T3 adapter ($65 AUD) would enable a Thunderbolt 3 eGPU enclosure to connect.
So my hunt began, and I managed to score an OWC Mercury Helios FX 650 with a AMD XFX RX580 8GB for $300 AUD.
After applying Kryptonite, the EGPU ran perfectly. This also means my core temperatures are considerably lower with the eGPU absorbing some of the grunt.
So far I haven’t had a lot of opportunity to do real world testing, but I haven’t encountered any crashes or oddities either.
All up, the cost ran me $1,272 AUD. For the power and compatibility, I believe it’s a good price, especially as I was able to spread the cost over 6 months. Additionally, the NVMe and eGPU can easily be repurposed, so that cost can float across multiple devices.
Would I recommend this to anyone in 2023-2024? Depends. If you already have a Mac Pro and are comfortable tinkering with it, go for it. For my workflow, the IO and software still works for me, although is on the fringe of redundancy.
Should you go down this path fresh? If you can find the machine and parts for the right price, of course! It will require patience and a savvy shopper attitude, but it’s not impossible. Buying a Mac Pro with some or all of these upgrades will be pricey, so starting with a base machine and slowly building it up generally proves more cost effective. The CPU though - I stress - is a tedious and finicky process.
However, with the performance and cost of the new M2 machines, even the standard Mac Mini out performs the 2013 Mac Pro. After all, it is a 10 year old machine now.
At the end of the day, the trashcan still is a strange and compelling machine, that has found its haters and cult followers. Even without the upgrades I really enjoy having it as my daily driver, but it’s now just that much better until it’s eventually retired.
I ended up filming the tear down process so for anyone interested I may upload it along with some benchmarking. Otherwise, thanks for reading and feel few to ask any questions :).
Item Cost Base system 700 Storage 1tb 109 Cabling 65 RAM 32GB 45 CPU 12 Core 50 eGPU enc. 320 GPU -
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Hi everyone,
For this sale, everything in Picture 3 & Picture 4 is $5 to add onto another set. Otherwise, please refer to the pricing below. All of the newer stuff will be right below where it says “Picture (Picture 1, Picture 2, etc)
As always, everything equal to or greater than $20 includes shipping. Anything less will be a flat $3-$5 shipping. Not intending to split any of the sets unless noted. If you need any more pictures, feel free to ask.
Also, open to international shipping if you’re willing to pay shipping. If you are outside of the US, please let me know in advance so I can calculate shipping for you.
https://imgur.com/a/LSZwys1
Picture 1:
Astral Project 1-4 COMPLETE - $80
Blue Lock 1-3 - $30
Kanju No 8 1-5 - $35
Saikano 1-5 - $80
Big Order 1 - $12
Devil Ecstasy 1 - $12
Are you Alice? 12 - $50
Maga-Tsuki 1-13 COMPLETE - $120
Marmalade Boy 1-8 COMPLETE - $80
Horimiya 1-4 - $35
Kodocha 8 - $25
The Quintessential Quintuplets 1-14 COMPLETE - $90
Magic Knight Rayearth 1 omnibus - $20
Variente 4 (sealed) - $25
X2 (times 2) COMPLETE - $20
Ciguatera 3 - $15
The Hellbound 1-2 COMPLETE - $20
Ace Attorney 1 & Official Casebook 2 - $35
Mermaid Saga 3-4 - $30
Saturn Apartments 2 - $15
Twin Knights 2 - $15
The Kurosagi Delivery Service 3 - $15
Maga-Tsuki 11-13 - $20
Gundam the Last Outpost 1 - $10
Cage of Eden 17 - $35
Kakegurui 1,3,4 - $30
One Piece 2,5,6,8,10,12,13 (gold foils)- $140
Plunderer 1 - $15
Please Tell me Galko Chan 5 - $25
Pandora in the Crimson Shell 1-11 (missing 9) - $70
The way of the house husband 1-5 - $35
An Older Guy’s VR First Love (Oneshot) - $10
Masamune Kun’s Revenge 1,2,8 - $35
Battle Royale 5 - $15
Attack on Titan 1,2,4,5 before the fall 1, lost girls 1 - $25
Shadow star 2,3 - $35
Lucky Star 4,6,7 - $50
Animal Land 7 - $30
Emma 6,9 - $30
Kamiyadori 3-4 (4 still sealed)- $30
Ninja Slayer Kills 1-5 COMPLETE - $30
Master Keaton 6,9 - $30
Genshiken Omnibus 3 - $20
Castle in the Sky Ani-Manga 2-4 - $30
Lone Wolf and Cub 7,8,15,18-28 (14 books)- $220
Polar Bear in Love 3-5 (all sealed) - $25
Picture 2:
One Punch Man 1-23 - $180
Tramps like Us 2-5, 7 - $100
Portus COMPLETE - $25
MPD Psycho 1-11 UTD (In English) - $350
Midori Days 1-8 COMPLETE - $90
Love me, Love me Not 1-12 COMPLETE - $90
Canon 1-4 COMPLETE - $45
Freezing 1-26 COMPLETE (for English) - $680
Emma 1-9 singles (missing 8)- $130
Kagerou Daze 3-4 - $15
Remote 1-10 COMPLETE - $75
Tokyo Ghoul 1-6 - $40
High School Girls 1-9 COMPLETE - $75
Picture 3 & Picture 4:
Everything in Picture 4 is: $10 + shipping. Buy 2 and you get free shipping. Buy 3 and you get it for $25. Buy 4 and you get it for $30. $5 add on for anything else after buying at least 4.

Some Background: My mother abandoned me when I was 3 years old after my father had an affair with her best friend. My father married her best friend and moved away leaving me and my mother behind. He took his cat though. my mother didn't really want to be a mother, and she sent me to go live with my father. My father and stepmother were horribly physically, emotionally, and psychologically abusive.
During my childhood, my mother almost never contacted me in any way. I saw her five times from Age 3 until 18. Once, I stayed with her for 6 months when I was 11. she told me she was going to file for custody of me because from the stories I had told her about my life, she knew that I was being abused by my father and stepmother.
That was a lie however. She sent me back to live with my father and stepmother who continued to abuse me until my 18th birthday.
When I turned 18, my mother wanted to have a really close friendly relationship with me. I was really angry about her abandoning me twice. I didn't trust her and I didn't really feel that we had the foundation for a relationship, but I desperately wanted her love and approval.
Even though she hadn't raised me and she sent me to live with people who she knew were actively abusing me, she wanted me to treat her like she was the best mother ever. she would constantly tell stories about when I was under 3 years old. It made me really uncomfortable. I would ask her to stop telling the stories but she wouldn't.
When I got engaged, I invited her to my wedding which was a Orthodox wedding. for those of you who don't know, there is a very strict dress code for women that involves necklines that cover the collarbones, shirts that have sleeves which cover the elbows and skirts that go below the knee. I asked my mother to follow this dress code and she agreed to, but she showed up at the wedding with a blouse that was a deep v-neck. she wasn't showing cleavage or anything, but it was horribly inappropriate. she was also wearing open toed shoes which I had asked her specifically not to wear. When I confronted her on this, she basically dismissed my boundary and said that because she wasn't showing cleavage and because her shoes were very cute sandals that it was fine for her not to respect the dress code.
when I was pregnant, I told her, and she announced my pregnancy publicly before I had the opportunity to do so. It really hurt me that she told my grandmother and other family members before I had the opportunity to. when I tried to talk to her about this gently, telling her how much it had hurt me and how I would appreciate her not sharing my news with people especially after I had specifically asked her not to, she got very angry with me and told me I had no right to tell her what she can talk with her family members about.
These are some of the big events, however there have been a million other boundary violations and disrespectful actions towards me. over the years I went from wanting to have frequent contact with her to very low contact. especially When I became a mother, I realized I would never understand her or the choices that she made regarding me.
I have been living abroad, in Mexico, for the last 11 years. I live in a good area and I have a great job here. I invited my mother to come to visit us several years ago, before the pandemic and she gave me a lot of excuses why she couldn't come. She said that the flight would be too expensive. She said that she didn't have a way to get from the airport to our home. When my husband and I offered to pick her up from the airport and even to pay for her flight, she finally told us that it's because we live in Mexico. She doesn't feel it's a very nice place and she has never had a desire to come to this country.
This hurt very much because she lives several hours from the border in a city in America that is way more violent than where I live. The statistics for violent crime show that there is a higher rate of crime in her city than mine. I tried to tell her that she would be safe and that I really wanted to visit her to visit us in our home because I'm very proud of the life that my husband and I have built for ourselves. I told her she could stay in our guest room and that we would take her to the park we go to and the children science museum we frequent and our favorite restaurants, etc. she insulted Mexico and refused.
it left such a bad taste in my mouth that I didn't speak to her for the greater part of a year.
Then, she emailed me out of the blue about 9 months later and it was a one-line email. she said, I like where you live.
I obviously thought that she could be in my city so I emailed her back asking her directly if she were. no answer. I called her cell phone. no answer. I texted her and received no answer.
about a week later, she emailed me again telling me that she was no longer in my city but had spent two weeks there and she really thought it was a very fine place. she never tried to call me or see me at all but she traveled internationally to the city that I live in and she contacted me just so that I would know that she had been there and had Made no effort to contact me at all. It really hurt my feelings.
I wrote to her telling her that it hurt my feelings and letting her know that I felt she owed me an apology and an explanation for doing that. She has done a lot of hurtful things to me over the years, but that was so over the top and ridiculous - - even for her - - so I felt that it was a fair request.
Instead, she told me that she had already apologized to me. she insisted that she had apologized and I was refusing to accept her apology. she had never apologized to me. I'm certain of it. However, this made me doubt myself and I installed an automatic call recorder in an attempt to Discover if I was remembering things incorrectly or if she does lie constantly and then try to rewrite the truth.
she never apologized for the Mexico fiasco. However, I felt guilty after not speaking to her for a while and I initiated contact and we had low contact for a while that seemed to be going well. what I mean is she wasn't outright rude or disrespectful or passive aggressive. I was calling her every week and she would answer most times and we would make small talk for a few minutes.
Then, on one of our weekly calls in October of last year (2022), she told me in October of last year (2022) that she would be moving to another part of the country, very far away from the international border. Since we had had a few months of decent text exchanges, I decided to call her. During that call, in November 2022, I invited her again to come to visit us before she moves because I don't know when I will ever see her again because of how far away she's moving and how bad our relationship has always been.
I was hoping that she would see this as an opportunity to bury the hatchet and reconnect. instead she told me no. She flat out refused. she answered so quickly it was obvious that she didn't even consider it at all. It was like a reflex refusal. I know people can't always travel when they want to, I'm not so unreasonable, but she has over a year before she moves so it would have felt better if she at least pretended to consider it.
We spoke a week later and she asked me if after she moved my family and I would be willing to travel to see her at her new house. I told her no. I reminded her that we had invited her to visit us twice and she refused both times. I went on to say that I am not willing to travel so far to visit someone who has refused to visit me.
She told me that she never refused to visit me. I told her that she had. I'm certain that she did refuse, because I recorded that phone call and I had listened to it several times. there is a clear refusal. She told me that I had not recorded it. That I was lying. I emailed her the audio from the call. I tried to call her the next week but she didn’t answer. Same thing the week after that. Same thing every week since I gave up trying to speak to her over the phone in early February 2023. The last time I called her, I left her a pretty curt voicemail. I told her that if she wanted to speak to me that she should answer the phone or return my calls. A few weeks later she sent me a message at just after 7am, as I was getting ready to go to an important work meeting. In her message, she complained to me about the voicemail. She told me that it is not appropriate to contact someone and not ask them how they are doing and give them a polite greeting. She told me that she did not like my voicemail and asked me not to leave her voicemails like that. I messaged her back and told her that I will not be leaving any more voicemails, as she has not answered or returned my calls in over 4 months and I have given up. I also told her that she was messaging me at 7am to complain about a voicemail I left weeks ago and to please not message me just to complain, until after 6pm, when I get off of work.
She messaged me back and said, ‘' No worries, won't be bothering anymore. Enough take care don't text or call you won't get a response. You have made yourself clean when it comes to me.' So I blocked her. On my phone. On social media. On everything I could think of. However, I didn’t think of blocking her on my old email address. A few weeks later I was looking for an old document in that old email account and I saw that she had emailed me. Here is the exchange:
MOM: Sat, Mar 4, 8:25 PM
Dear daughter, if someone isn't able to do something but could and wants to do that thing at another time it is not refusing that thing. I truly hope we can get past all this time disagreeing with each other and go forward . When I told you not to text me it isn't that I don't want a relationship with you. A relationship can't be based on the actions that have been going on between us. Love you always mom
ME: Thu, Mar 9 12:17PM
Mom, You said to me in a text message from Feb 22nd, 2023 at 7:28 AM, and I am quoting you directly: ' No worries, won't be bothering anymore. Enough take care don't text or call you won't get a response. You have made yourself clean when it comes to me.'
By refusing to answer or return my calls for months while I consistently reached out to you and by sending me that text message above, you have made yourself very clear that you do not want a relationship with me.
Even in this email that you sent, the one I am responding to, You began it immediately by arguing with me. Hardly a way to mend a relationship. Just stop.
MOM Thu, Mar 9 12:19PM
Daughter I am sorry you feel the way you do. I only wish we both could, never mind i will be sending things i was going to send for a while to you soon love you mom.
ME: 1:04 PM
Mom, Saying "I'm sorry you feel the way you do" is not an authentic apology because it doesn't take responsibility for your actions or behavior. It is a common example of a non-apology apology, which is a statement that appears to express regret or remorse but does not truly acknowledge wrongdoing.
An authentic apology should include an admission of responsibility for your actions, an expression of regret or remorse, and a commitment to making amends or taking steps to prevent the same behavior from happening again in the future. It should focus on the impact of your actions on the other person, rather than their reaction or feelings about the situation.
Just STOP. Please do not force me to block you here as well
MOM: I have apologized so many times. you don't need to block me .
ME: When did you apologize for sending me that message?
MOM:You told me to stop so I am going to. I don't want you to block me or anything of that nature.
ME: Please answer my question.
When did you apologize to me for sending me the following message?
Feb 22nd, 2023 at 7:28 AM ' No worries, won't be bothering anymore. Enough take care don't text or call you won't get a response. You have made yourself clean when it comes to me.'
MOM:Am going to stop as you ask me to. I hope we can find our way to one another. Love you mom
ME: On Thu, Mar 9, 2023
When I asked you to stop, you refused to by continuing to message me.
Now, I am asking you to answer the question. You are refusing to answer it because we both know that you never apologized for sending me that message. Your emails to me today are the only contact we have had since you sent it.
Do not contact me again until you are ready to properly apologize for that message. If you contact me for any other reason, I will block you immediately without responding.
I deserve to be treated with respect.
Thanks a bunch,
Daughter
Thu, Mar 9, 2023 at 6:37 PM
MOM:If your answer to everything with me is blocking me, do what you have to do. I am standing up for myself and your stand to block me? Then just do what you feel is right and if blocking me is then do it. I am here when we can talk without the, ‘I am going to block you’ attitude. Love mom
BLOCKED
ME: Fri, Mar 10, 2023, 8:36 AM
Dear Mom,
It breaks my heart to have to write this letter to you, but I feel that you have given me no other choice. For as long as I can remember, our relationship has been strained and difficult, but it has been particularly bad in the past few months.
It hurts me deeply that we haven't had a single pleasant interaction since November 2022. It hurts me that you refused to speak to me over Christmas and New Year's, and that you have ignored and not returned my calls for months on end. It hurts me that every time we do interact, it is filled with hostility, anger, and resentment.
I know that I am not blameless in our relationship, but I have tried so hard to make things work between us. I have tried to clearly communicate my needs and boundaries to you, but you have not respected them. I have tried to reach out to you and make amends, but you have not taken those opportunities. Even yesterday, I clearly asked you not to contact me unless it was to apologize for the message you sent me on 'Feb 22nd, 2023 at 7:28 AM, when you said, and I am quoting you directly: ' No worries, won't be bothering anymore. Enough take care don't text or call you won't get a response. You have made yourself clean when it comes to me.' Instead of apologizing to me as I clearly asked you to, you continued to email me only to argue with me and blame me for the state of things between us.
Your consistent behavior towards me over time has been hurtful and disrespectful, and it has taken a toll on my mental health and well-being. I had been recording our phone conversations because I needed to protect myself and my mental health because of your dishonesty and gaslighting. I never intended to hurt you or betray your trust, but I needed to do what was best for me.
I am devastated that our relationship has come to this. I am devastated that we cannot find a way to have a healthy and positive relationship. I am devastated that I have to write this letter to tell you that I cannot have you in my life anymore.
I want you to know that I love you and that I will always cherish the good memories we have shared. I will try to remember you at your best. But I cannot continue to subject myself to the pain and hurt that our interactions bring me. I need to put myself first and surround myself with people who love and support me. Unfortunately you have not treated me lovingly nor supportively for years.
I don't believe at this point that you will change but I still hope that this estrangement will give you the chance to reflect on your behavior and take steps towards becoming a better version of yourself. If you do that work on yourself, maybe someday we can reconcile and heal the wounds that have been inflicted on our relationship. But for now, I need to say goodbye. I wish you all the best, and I hope that you can find happiness and peace.
With a heavy heart, Daughter Messages received in spam folder after blocking:
Fri, Mar 10, 7:35 AM
Good morning Daughter I am sorry for my message sent on 2/28. I was reacting basically on someone else's action to me which was wrong of me. Am sorry for that. I love you mom
Fri, Mar 10, 8:59 AM
Am at work and received your email. You can blame all that has gone wrong with our relationship on me . It hurts more than I can say to know my daughter doesn't want me in her life. Am praying for my mom being very ill at this time and now I lose you. Take care and I love you so much . Mom
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Fri, Mar 10, 6:09 PM
Am giving your words back to you. I did apologize and you still made the choice to let me not be in your life, I am hurt but will honor your choice. I will love you always. I did the right thing and apologized to you. In time I will make peace with what is to be in time. Mom
So, if anyone has read this whole thing, what do you think? Should I stay no contact? Do you think this could be salvaged? I feel really guilty, like I should reach out to her again. What do you think I should do?

I've been with my spouse about 11 years now, married for a few years. Was with my ex about 5 years prior. Truthfully I've never gotten over my ex and still regularly have thoughts of them. We separated whilst really we still loved each other. I instigated the break up. No red flags either way, no big arguments or fights etc. Long story short it just wasn't the right time, mainly for me. A long break probably would have worked for us but that's not what happened unfortunately.
Now married but messaging my ex from 12 years ago (I didn't send the first message and there was a pretty genuine reason for the message).
Ex is also in a relationship.
Want my ex back and always have. Think now that my ex might feel the same but can't be certain as we / I held back a bit. But we did start talking about the past, reminiscing, answering unanswered questions etc.
Scared of the impact on others involved if this goes on or escalates. Don't know whether to throw caution to the wind and try get back with my ex (share my true feelings), or to end the chat with ex and continue on with spouse. Or even to just end it with spouse and leave regardless as I know I should be more committed emotionally.
Yes I'm a scum bag, I'm sorry.
Advice welcome........

Pirates @ Tigers - Fri, Mar 24

Game Status: Game Over: Tied - Score: 6-6

Links & Info

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• Game Graphs
• Savant Gamefeed

	Pirates Batters	AB	R	H	RBI	BB	K	LOB	AVG	OBP	SLG
1	Hayes - 3B	4	1	3	2	0	0	0	.353	.371	.794
	Maggi - 3B	1	0	0	0	0	1	1	.400	.464	.840
2	Reynolds, B - CF	4	1	1	0	0	0	3	.209	.277	.419
	Ordonez - 1B	1	0	0	1	0	0	0	.000	.000	.000
3	Joe - RF	4	1	2	2	0	2	0	.263	.317	.447
	Owings - SS	1	0	0	0	0	1	1	.250	.417	.429
4	Santana - 1B	2	0	0	0	2	1	1	.143	.286	.229
	2-Sanchez, L - CF	1	0	0	0	0	0	1	.154	.154	.385
5	Choi - DH	4	0	2	0	0	2	2	.290	.303	.484
6	Castro, R - SS	3	0	0	0	1	1	2	.224	.255	.367
	Palacios, J - RF	0	0	0	0	0	0	0	.000	.000	.000
7	Andújar - LF	3	0	0	0	0	0	2	.189	.244	.351
	a-Smith-Njigba - LF	1	0	0	0	0	0	0	.316	.409	.526
8	Heineman - C	4	1	1	0	0	1	2	.095	.174	.143
9	Mathias - 2B	3	0	2	1	0	1	0	.269	.424	.308
	1-Bae - 2B	1	2	1	0	0	0	0	.270	.325	.297
	Totals	37	6	12	6	3	10	15

Pirates
a-Grounded out for Andújar in the 8th. 1-Ran for Mathias in the 7th. 2-Ran for Santana in the 7th.
BATTING: 2B: Reynolds, B (3, Rodriguez, Ed); Heineman (1, Rodriguez, Ed); Choi (3, Rodriguez, Ed). HR: Joe (1, 1st inning off Rodriguez, Ed, 1 on, 1 out); Hayes (4, 7th inning off Brieske, 1 on, 0 out). TB: Bae; Choi 3; Hayes 6; Heineman 2; Joe 5; Mathias 2; Reynolds, B 2. RBI: Hayes 2 (9); Joe 2 (3); Mathias (5); Ordonez (1). Runners left in scoring position, 2 out: Heineman; Castro, R; Sanchez, L. GIDP: Reynolds, B 2. Team RISP: 3-for-10. Team LOB: 7.
FIELDING: DP: (Castro, R-Mathias-Santana).

	Tigers Batters	AB	R	H	RBI	BB	K	LOB	AVG	OBP	SLG
1	Carpenter, K - LF	4	2	3	0	0	0	2	.327	.346	.592
	Meadows, P - LF	1	1	1	0	0	0	0	.333	.400	.750
2	Maton, N - 3B	2	2	2	1	2	0	0	.326	.404	.696
	Palacios - 3B	1	0	0	0	0	0	1	.267	.333	.433
3	Báez, J - SS	4	0	1	2	0	1	4	.182	.176	.242
	Graham - SS	1	0	0	0	0	1	1	.000	.500	.000
4	Meadows, A - RF	4	0	1	1	0	0	3	.255	.321	.340
	Davis, B - RF	1	0	1	1	0	0	0	.269	.387	.385
5	Torkelson - 1B	4	0	1	1	0	1	2	.278	.328	.389
	Holton, J - 1B	1	0	0	0	0	1	1	.500	.556	.500
6	Cabrera, M - DH	3	0	2	0	0	0	2	.250	.286	.450
	1-Campos - DH	2	0	0	0	0	1	0	.125	.125	.125
7	Baddoo - CF	2	0	1	0	1	0	2	.239	.314	.478
	Hernández - 2B	2	0	1	0	0	0	0	.262	.354	.429
8	Haase - C	4	0	0	0	0	1	5	.262	.273	.524
	2-Papierski - C	0	0	0	0	1	0	0	.263	.391	.526
9	Schoop, J - 3B	3	1	1	0	0	1	4	.217	.280	.304
	Davis, Jo - CF	2	0	0	0	0	2	2	.146	.255	.171
	Totals	41	6	15	6	4	9	29

Tigers
1-Ran for Cabrera, M in the 5th. 2-Ran for Haase in the 7th.
BATTING: 2B: Meadows, A (4, Contreras); Meadows, P (3, Perdomo, A). HR: Maton, N (5, 6th inning off Stephenson, R, 0 on, 0 out). TB: Baddoo; Báez, J; Cabrera, M 2; Carpenter, K 3; Davis, B; Hernández; Maton, N 5; Meadows, A 2; Meadows, P 2; Schoop, J; Torkelson. RBI: Báez, J 2 (5); Davis, B (6); Maton, N (8); Meadows, A (8); Torkelson (6). 2-out RBI: Davis, B. Runners left in scoring position, 2 out: Meadows, A; Baddoo; Schoop, J; Torkelson; Carpenter, K; Holton, J. GIDP: Báez, J. Team RISP: 5-for-20. Team LOB: 12.
FIELDING: PB: Papierski (1). DP: 2 (Báez, J-Maton, N-Torkelson; Rodriguez, Ed-Maton, N-Torkelson).

Pirates Pitchers	IP	H	R	ER	BB	K	HR	P-S	ERA
Contreras	3.1	6	2	2	2	3	0	66-43	3.86
Hernandez, J	0.2	4	2	2	0	0	0	14-11	8.00
Bednar	0.2	1	0	0	1	1	0	25-16	7.36
Garcia, O	0.1	0	0	0	0	0	0	3-2	0.00
Stephenson, R	1.0	1	1	1	0	0	1	18-11	9.00
Moreta	1.0	1	0	0	0	2	0	15-9	1.04
Perdomo, A	1.0	2	1	1	0	2	0	17-12	8.31
Minaya	1.0	0	0	0	1	1	0	16-9	0.00
Totals	9.0	15	6	6	4	9	1

Tigers Pitchers	IP	H	R	ER	BB	K	HR	P-S	ERA
Rodriguez, Ed	5.1	9	3	3	1	6	1	85-58	1.47
Shreve	0.2	0	0	0	1	0	0	13-7	2.25
Brieske	2.0	2	2	2	1	2	1	30-17	9.28
White	1.0	1	1	1	0	2	0	17-11	3.60
Totals	9.0	12	6	6	3	10	2

Game Info
WP: Contreras; Bednar.
Pitches-strikes: Contreras 66-43; Hernandez, J 14-11; Bednar 25-16; Garcia, O 3-2; Stephenson, R 18-11; Moreta 15-9; Perdomo, A 17-12; Minaya 16-9; Rodriguez, Ed 85-58; Shreve 13-7; Brieske 30-17; White 17-11.
Groundouts-flyouts: Contreras 2-2; Hernandez, J 2-0; Bednar 1-0; Garcia, O 1-0; Stephenson, R 2-0; Moreta 1-0; Perdomo, A 1-0; Minaya 1-0; Rodriguez, Ed 3-4; Shreve 0-1; Brieske 2-0; White 2-0.
Batters faced: Contreras 17; Hernandez, J 6; Bednar 4; Garcia, O 1; Stephenson, R 4; Moreta 4; Perdomo, A 5; Minaya 4; Rodriguez, Ed 23; Shreve 3; Brieske 9; White 5.
Inherited runners-scored: Garcia, O 2-0; Shreve 1-0.
Umpires: HP: Roberto Ortiz. 1B: Emil Jimenez. 2B: Laz Diaz. 3B: Jerry Layne.
Weather: 85 degrees, Clear.
Wind: 10 mph, R To L.
First pitch: 6:07 PM.
Att: 5.
Venue: Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium.
March 24, 2023

Inning	Scoring Play	Score
Top 1	Connor Joe homers (1) on a fly ball to left field. Bryan Reynolds scores.	2-0 PIT
Top 2	Mark Mathias singles on a ground ball to center fielder Akil Baddoo. Tyler Heineman scores.	3-0 PIT
Bottom 3	Austin Meadows doubles (4) on a sharp line drive to right fielder Connor Joe. Kerry Carpenter scores. Nick Maton to 3rd.	3-1 PIT
Bottom 3	Spencer Torkelson singles on a sharp line drive to left fielder Miguel Andujar. Nick Maton scores. Austin Meadows to 3rd.	3-2 PIT
Bottom 4	Javier Baez singles on a ground ball to left fielder Miguel Andujar. Jonathan Schoop scores. Kerry Carpenter scores. Nick Maton to 2nd.	4-3 DET
Bottom 6	Nick Maton homers (5) on a fly ball to right center field.	5-3 DET
Top 7	Ke'Bryan Hayes homers (4) on a line drive to left field. Ji Hwan Bae scores.	5-5
Bottom 8	Brendon Davis singles on a line drive to right fielder Josh Palacios. Parker Meadows scores.	6-5 DET
Top 9	Ernny Ordonez reaches on a fielder's choice, fielded by third baseman Jermaine Palacios. Ji Hwan Bae scores.	6-6

Team	Highlight
PIT	Breaking down Roansy Contreras's pitches (00:00:08)
DET	Breaking down Eduardo Rodriguez's pitches (00:00:08)
DET	Eduardo Rodriguez's outing against the Pirates (00:00:23)

	1	2	3	4	5	6	7	8	9		R	H	E	LOB
Pirates	2	1	0	0	0	0	2	0	1		6	12	0	7
Tigers	0	0	2	2	0	1	0	1	0		6	15	0	12

Division Scoreboard

MIN 6 @ NYY 4 - Final
SF 0 @ KC 3 - Final
CWS 12 @ OAK 0 - Final
CHC 1 @ CLE 0 - Top 1, 2 Outs
Next Tigers Game: Sat, Mar 25, 06:07 PM EDT @ Blue Jays
^{Last Updated: 03/24/2023 09:12:55 PM EDT}

Pirates @ Tigers - Fri, Mar 24

Game Status: Game Over: Tied - Score: 6-6

Links & Info

• MLB Gameday
• Game Graphs
• Savant Gamefeed

	Pirates Batters	AB	R	H	RBI	BB	K	LOB	AVG	OBP	SLG
1	Hayes - 3B	4	1	3	2	0	0	0	.353	.371	.794
	Maggi - 3B	1	0	0	0	0	1	1	.400	.464	.840
2	Reynolds, B - CF	4	1	1	0	0	0	3	.209	.277	.419
	Ordonez - 1B	1	0	0	1	0	0	0	.000	.000	.000
3	Joe - RF	4	1	2	2	0	2	0	.263	.317	.447
	Owings - SS	1	0	0	0	0	1	1	.250	.417	.429
4	Santana - 1B	2	0	0	0	2	1	1	.143	.286	.229
	2-Sanchez, L - CF	1	0	0	0	0	0	1	.154	.154	.385
5	Choi - DH	4	0	2	0	0	2	2	.290	.303	.484
6	Castro, R - SS	3	0	0	0	1	1	2	.224	.255	.367
	Palacios, J - RF	0	0	0	0	0	0	0	.000	.000	.000
7	Andújar - LF	3	0	0	0	0	0	2	.189	.244	.351
	a-Smith-Njigba - LF	1	0	0	0	0	0	0	.316	.409	.526
8	Heineman - C	4	1	1	0	0	1	2	.095	.174	.143
9	Mathias - 2B	3	0	2	1	0	1	0	.269	.424	.308
	1-Bae - 2B	1	2	1	0	0	0	0	.270	.325	.297
	Totals	37	6	12	6	3	10	15

Pirates
a-Grounded out for Andújar in the 8th. 1-Ran for Mathias in the 7th. 2-Ran for Santana in the 7th.
BATTING: 2B: Reynolds, B (3, Rodriguez, Ed); Heineman (1, Rodriguez, Ed); Choi (3, Rodriguez, Ed). HR: Joe (1, 1st inning off Rodriguez, Ed, 1 on, 1 out); Hayes (4, 7th inning off Brieske, 1 on, 0 out). TB: Bae; Choi 3; Hayes 6; Heineman 2; Joe 5; Mathias 2; Reynolds, B 2. RBI: Hayes 2 (9); Joe 2 (3); Mathias (5); Ordonez (1). Runners left in scoring position, 2 out: Heineman; Castro, R; Sanchez, L. GIDP: Reynolds, B 2. Team RISP: 3-for-10. Team LOB: 7.
FIELDING: DP: (Castro, R-Mathias-Santana).

	Tigers Batters	AB	R	H	RBI	BB	K	LOB	AVG	OBP	SLG
1	Carpenter, K - LF	4	2	3	0	0	0	2	.327	.346	.592
	Meadows, P - LF	1	1	1	0	0	0	0	.333	.400	.750
2	Maton, N - 3B	2	2	2	1	2	0	0	.326	.404	.696
	Palacios - 3B	1	0	0	0	0	0	1	.267	.333	.433
3	Báez, J - SS	4	0	1	2	0	1	4	.182	.176	.242
	Graham - SS	1	0	0	0	0	1	1	.000	.500	.000
4	Meadows, A - RF	4	0	1	1	0	0	3	.255	.321	.340
	Davis, B - RF	1	0	1	1	0	0	0	.269	.387	.385
5	Torkelson - 1B	4	0	1	1	0	1	2	.278	.328	.389
	Holton, J - 1B	1	0	0	0	0	1	1	.500	.556	.500
6	Cabrera, M - DH	3	0	2	0	0	0	2	.250	.286	.450
	1-Campos - DH	2	0	0	0	0	1	0	.125	.125	.125
7	Baddoo - CF	2	0	1	0	1	0	2	.239	.314	.478
	Hernández - 2B	2	0	1	0	0	0	0	.262	.354	.429
8	Haase - C	4	0	0	0	0	1	5	.262	.273	.524
	2-Papierski - C	0	0	0	0	1	0	0	.263	.391	.526
9	Schoop, J - 3B	3	1	1	0	0	1	4	.217	.280	.304
	Davis, Jo - CF	2	0	0	0	0	2	2	.146	.255	.171
	Totals	41	6	15	6	4	9	29

Tigers
1-Ran for Cabrera, M in the 5th. 2-Ran for Haase in the 7th.
BATTING: 2B: Meadows, A (4, Contreras); Meadows, P (3, Perdomo, A). HR: Maton, N (5, 6th inning off Stephenson, R, 0 on, 0 out). TB: Baddoo; Báez, J; Cabrera, M 2; Carpenter, K 3; Davis, B; Hernández; Maton, N 5; Meadows, A 2; Meadows, P 2; Schoop, J; Torkelson. RBI: Báez, J 2 (5); Davis, B (6); Maton, N (8); Meadows, A (8); Torkelson (6). 2-out RBI: Davis, B. Runners left in scoring position, 2 out: Meadows, A; Baddoo; Schoop, J; Torkelson; Carpenter, K; Holton, J. GIDP: Báez, J. Team RISP: 5-for-20. Team LOB: 12.
FIELDING: PB: Papierski (1). DP: 2 (Báez, J-Maton, N-Torkelson; Rodriguez, Ed-Maton, N-Torkelson).

Pirates Pitchers	IP	H	R	ER	BB	K	HR	P-S	ERA
Contreras	3.1	6	2	2	2	3	0	66-43	3.86
Hernandez, J	0.2	4	2	2	0	0	0	14-11	8.00
Bednar	0.2	1	0	0	1	1	0	25-16	7.36
Garcia, O	0.1	0	0	0	0	0	0	3-2	0.00
Stephenson, R	1.0	1	1	1	0	0	1	18-11	9.00
Moreta	1.0	1	0	0	0	2	0	15-9	1.04
Perdomo, A	1.0	2	1	1	0	2	0	17-12	8.31
Minaya	1.0	0	0	0	1	1	0	16-9	0.00
Totals	9.0	15	6	6	4	9	1

Tigers Pitchers	IP	H	R	ER	BB	K	HR	P-S	ERA
Rodriguez, Ed	5.1	9	3	3	1	6	1	85-58	1.47
Shreve	0.2	0	0	0	1	0	0	13-7	2.25
Brieske	2.0	2	2	2	1	2	1	30-17	9.28
White	1.0	1	1	1	0	2	0	17-11	3.60
Totals	9.0	12	6	6	3	10	2

Game Info
WP: Contreras; Bednar.
Pitches-strikes: Contreras 66-43; Hernandez, J 14-11; Bednar 25-16; Garcia, O 3-2; Stephenson, R 18-11; Moreta 15-9; Perdomo, A 17-12; Minaya 16-9; Rodriguez, Ed 85-58; Shreve 13-7; Brieske 30-17; White 17-11.
Groundouts-flyouts: Contreras 2-2; Hernandez, J 2-0; Bednar 1-0; Garcia, O 1-0; Stephenson, R 2-0; Moreta 1-0; Perdomo, A 1-0; Minaya 1-0; Rodriguez, Ed 3-4; Shreve 0-1; Brieske 2-0; White 2-0.
Batters faced: Contreras 17; Hernandez, J 6; Bednar 4; Garcia, O 1; Stephenson, R 4; Moreta 4; Perdomo, A 5; Minaya 4; Rodriguez, Ed 23; Shreve 3; Brieske 9; White 5.
Inherited runners-scored: Garcia, O 2-0; Shreve 1-0.
Umpires: HP: Roberto Ortiz. 1B: Emil Jimenez. 2B: Laz Diaz. 3B: Jerry Layne.
Weather: 85 degrees, Clear.
Wind: 10 mph, R To L.
First pitch: 6:07 PM.
Att: 5.
Venue: Publix Field at Joker Marchant Stadium.
March 24, 2023

Inning	Scoring Play	Score
Top 1	Connor Joe homers (1) on a fly ball to left field. Bryan Reynolds scores.	2-0 PIT
Top 2	Mark Mathias singles on a ground ball to center fielder Akil Baddoo. Tyler Heineman scores.	3-0 PIT
Bottom 3	Austin Meadows doubles (4) on a sharp line drive to right fielder Connor Joe. Kerry Carpenter scores. Nick Maton to 3rd.	3-1 PIT
Bottom 3	Spencer Torkelson singles on a sharp line drive to left fielder Miguel Andujar. Nick Maton scores. Austin Meadows to 3rd.	3-2 PIT
Bottom 4	Javier Baez singles on a ground ball to left fielder Miguel Andujar. Jonathan Schoop scores. Kerry Carpenter scores. Nick Maton to 2nd.	4-3 DET
Bottom 6	Nick Maton homers (5) on a fly ball to right center field.	5-3 DET
Top 7	Ke'Bryan Hayes homers (4) on a line drive to left field. Ji Hwan Bae scores.	5-5
Bottom 8	Brendon Davis singles on a line drive to right fielder Josh Palacios. Parker Meadows scores.	6-5 DET
Top 9	Ernny Ordonez reaches on a fielder's choice, fielded by third baseman Jermaine Palacios. Ji Hwan Bae scores.	6-6

Team	Highlight
PIT	Breaking down Roansy Contreras's pitches (00:00:08)
DET	Breaking down Eduardo Rodriguez's pitches (00:00:08)
DET	Eduardo Rodriguez's outing against the Pirates (00:00:23)

	1	2	3	4	5	6	7	8	9		R	H	E	LOB
Pirates	2	1	0	0	0	0	2	0	1		6	12	0	7
Tigers	0	0	2	2	0	1	0	1	0		6	15	0	12

Division Scoreboard

TEX 3 @ CHC 5 - Final
MIL 6 @ LAD 6 - Final: Tied
CIN 7 @ AZ 4 - Final
COL 9 @ MIL 4 - Final
STL 7 @ WSH 1 - Final
CHC 1 @ CLE 0 - Top 1, 2 Outs
Next Pirates Game: Sat, Mar 25, 06:05 PM EDT vs. Orioles
^{Last Updated: 03/24/2023 09:12:47 PM EDT}

Line Score - Game Over

	1	2	3	4	5	6	7	8	9	R	H	E	LOB
HOU	0	0	0	0	0	2	0	0	0	2	1	1	2
MIA	1	0	0	1	0	1	0	0		3	7	0	9

Box Score

MIA		AB	R	H	RBI	BB	SO	BA
2B	Arraez	3	0	0	0	0	0	.269
C	Chávez, S	0	0	0	0	0	0	.182
CF	Chisholm Jr.	3	1	1	0	0	2	.233
CF	Hampson	1	0	0	0	0	0	.162
LF	Soler	3	0	0	0	1	0	.231
3B	Fletcher-Vance	0	0	0	0	0	0	.000
1B	Cooper	3	1	1	1	0	1	.326
SS	Iglesias	1	0	0	0	0	0	.167
RF	García, Av	3	0	0	0	0	0	.163
1B	Myers	0	0	0	0	1	0	.000
DH	Groshans	1	0	0	0	0	0	.313
3B	Segura	3	1	2	1	0	0	.379
LF	De La Cruz	1	0	1	0	0	0	.262
DH	Gurriel	3	0	1	1	0	0	.158
RF	Berti	2	0	0	0	2	0	.258
C	Stallings	3	0	1	0	0	0	.179
2B	Devers	1	0	0	0	0	0	.400

MIA	IP	H	R	ER	BB	SO	P-S	ERA
Alcantara, S	3.0	0	0	0	0	8	45-32	0.68
Nardi	1.0	0	0	0	1	1	13-7	1.23
Chargois	1.0	0	0	0	0	2	16-10	2.84
Brazoban	1.0	1	2	2	2	2	28-13	9.00
Scott, Tan	1.0	0	0	0	0	3	11-10	3.86
Stewart	1.0	0	0	0	0	1	8-7	4.50
Maldonado, A	1.0	0	0	0	1	1	12-6	0.00

HOU		AB	R	H	RBI	BB	SO	BA
2B	Bannon	3	0	0	0	1	3	.222
SS	Machado, D	4	0	1	2	0	1	.192
LF	Madris	3	0	0	0	1	3	.250
RF	Dirden	4	0	0	0	0	3	.333
1B	Matijevic	3	0	0	0	0	3	.235
DH	Julks	3	0	0	0	0	2	.250
C	Lee, K	1	1	0	0	1	1	.286
C	Diaz, Y	1	0	0	0	0	0	.278
3B	Hensley	2	1	0	0	1	1	.211
CF	Cole Jr.	2	0	0	0	0	0	.000
CF	Leon	1	0	0	0	0	1	.000

HOU	IP	H	R	ER	BB	SO	P-S	ERA
Valdez, F	5.2	4	2	2	1	3	74-53	2.33
Buttrey	0.1	2	1	1	1	0	19-11	5.00
Taylor, B	1.0	0	0	0	0	0	11-9	0.00
Davis, A	0.2	1	0	0	0	0	8-5	1.93
VanWey	0.1	0	0	0	2	0	17-6	0.00

Scoring Plays

Inning	Event	Score
B1	Garrett Cooper grounds out, shortstop Dixon Machado to first baseman J. J. Matijevic. Jazz Chisholm Jr. scores. Jorge Soler to 3rd.	1-0
B4	Jean Segura singles on a line drive to right fielder Justin Dirden. Garrett Cooper scores.	2-0
T6	Dixon Machado triples (1) on a ground ball to left fielder Jorge Soler. Korey Lee scores. David Hensley scores.	2-2
B6	Yuli Gurriel doubles (1) on a line drive to left fielder Bligh Madris. Jean Segura scores.	3-2

Highlights

Description	Length	Video
Marlins take off and steal second and third base	0:24	Video
Sandy Alcantara's outing against the Astros	0:23	Video
Segura lines an RBI single to right field	0:19	Video
Marlins hitting coach Brant Brown talks new position	4:35	Video
Dixon Machado laces a two-run triple to left field	0:36	Video
Breaking down Framber Valdez's pitches	0:08	Video
Framber Valdez's outing against the Marlins	0:23	Video
Sandy Alcantara whiffs eight Astros	1:38	Video

Decisions

Winning Pitcher	Losing Pitcher	Save
Brazoban (1-0, 9.00 ERA)	Buttrey (0-1, 5.00 ERA)	Maldonado, A (1 SV, 0.00 ERA)

Game ended at 8:02 PM.

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Event Details

• Attribute: Pure
• Event Type: Live Goals
• Boosted Members: Rinko, Rui, Nanami

Added Song

• Morfonica – 「Boku Note」 (Difficulty: 6 / 12 / 17 / 23)

Duration

• Start: March 25, 2023 – 1:00 (UTC) (Time Zone Converter)
• End: March 31, 2023 – 6:59 (UTC) (Time Zone Converter)

Event Rewards

• 3★ Cool: Nanami – Life Recovery: Life restored by 450 and score increased by 20% for 8 seconds.

Gacha: Archaic Museum of Reminiscence Gacha (Permanent)

• 4★ Pure: Rui – Conditional Scorer: Score increased by 95% (lowered to 80% for GREAT or lower) for 7 seconds. If band is all Pure types, score increased by 115% instead.
• 4★ Pure: Rinko – Perfect Lock: GOOD and higher notes become PERFECT and score increased by 60% for 7.5 seconds.

Note: Skill values are listed at Skill Level 5.
Card images and event details can be found here.
Past EN Event Megathreads

After a long and drooling three weeks of modding up Skyrim SSE for Xbox X/S, I finally nailed it down to where you can have 150 mods with the old Bruma Expansion, and experience no CTD's or bugs.
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2023 XBOX ONE X Skyrim MOD List
(With Beyond Skyrim – Bruma)
1) Skyrim USSEP Patch
2) Beyond Skyrim: Bruma Part 1 (v1.3.3)
3) Beyond Skyrim: Bruma Part 2
4) Beyond Skyrim: Bruma Part 3
5) Campfire: Complete Camping System
6) Beyond Skyrim: Bruma Part 4
7) Skyrim Vanilla Plus v. 5.1.1
8) Cutting Room Floor
9) Oculus Main Menu & Loading Screen
10) Ugh Mods Manager Cap
11) Deadly Civil War Skyrim
12) Return to Helgen (v4.3)
13) Mystical Scholarship: The Magical College Bundle
14) JaySerpa’s Quest Expansion Bundle
15) Darker Brotherhood V2
16) The Notice Board
17) The Notice Board – Better Solstheim Quests
18) The Paarthurnax Dilemma
19) Moonpath To Elsweyr SSE
20) Bloodmoon – Call of The Werebeasts
21) Resurgence of The Morag Tong
22) Cheat Room
23) Audio SFX Overhaul
24) Skyrim Musical Overhaul [XBOX]
25) War Drums Combat Music
26) Enhanced Lights and FX
27) ELFX Fixes AIO
28) Magical College of Winterhold ELFX Patch
29) Vivid Weathers: Definitive Edition
30) Vivid Weathers: Definitive Edition Bruma Patch
31) Skyrim is Windy
32) Double Beds Are For Two People
33) The Great Cities, Towns, And Villages Bundle
34) The Great City of Solitude
35) The Great City of Solitude USSEP Patch
36) The Great Cities, Towns, and Villages EFLX Patch
37) Greater Markarth Expansion
38) Spaghetti’s Cities: Windhelm
39) Granite Hill
40) Greymoor
41) Humble Riches: A Whiterun Overhaul
42) Dragonborn Village Expanded East
43) JK’s Riverwood
44) Medeval Forts
45) [XB1] Skaal Village Overhaul
46) Solstheim Reborn
47) Eastern Dwemer Towers
48) Anna’s Riverwood Cabin XB1
49) Waterview – Beyond Skyrim Cyrodiil Home
50) Lanterns of Skyrim – Special Edition All In One
51) Bruma Lanterns XB1
52) Bruma Lanterns – Lanterns of Skyrim Patch
53) Lanterns in small Towns {XBOX1}
54) Road Signs Overhaul
55) Lit Road Signs
56) Carriage Stops of Skyrim XB1
57) Dooty – Outhouses of Skyrim
58) Pauly’s Lush Grasslands of Skyrim
59) Pauly’s Lush Forests of Skyrim
60) (XBOX) Dragonborn – Solstheim Boat Travel
61) Noble Skyrim – Ships and Boats of Skyrim
62) [XBOX] Birds and Flocks
63) [XB1] Birds of Skyrim
64) [XB1] skyBirds – Airborne Perch
65) Farm Animals Xbox Edition
66) Sea of Spirits – Xbox Edition
67) 4thUnknown’s AiO
68) Frost Giants
69) Yetis and Sasquatchs
70) Dragur Cavalry
71) Land Dreugh
72) Classic Ghosts
73) Zombies
74) XIVALI
75) Daedra Spider
76) Grievous Twilight
77) Silt Striders
78) Cliff Racers
79) Bantam Guars
80) Alit
81) More people
82) World Encounters Overhaul
83) Extended Encounters
84) Immersive Citizens – AI Overhaul
85) More Tavern Idles
86) Stronger Courier
87) AI Overhaul 1.8.3
88) UNP Body and face Renewal (Wet Skin) (Reizo’s Mod)
89) [XB1] Chris57 and Sundracon Male Body Replacer
90) Male Face Textures by Den987
91) Natural Eyes
92) Riften Docks Overhaul & Riften Expansion AIO
93) The Great Cities, Towns, and Villages AI Overhaul Patch
94) NPC Armor & Clothing Overhaul
95) Authentic Legion Replacer (v.1)
96) Rebel’s Ranger Gear
97) Ancient Shrouded Armor Replacer
98) Kynreeve Armor – A Daedric Set
99) Beyond Skyrim Bruma – Cyrodilic Armor
100) Face Masks of Skyrim
101) RS Children Optimized
102) RS Children – Old BS Bruma v.1.3.3 Patch
103) RS Children - Cutting Room Floor Patch
104) RS Children – AI Overhaul Patch
105) iNeed Food, Water, and Sleep
106) iNeed – Extended
107) [XB1] Super Simple Bathing
108) Longer Days: Realistic Timescale
109) Crime Overhaul [XB1]
110) Easy Lockpicking
111) Rewarding Reading (Xbox)
112) Ring of God Mode
113) Dovah Ring of Crafting - Alchemy
114) Craft Anything and Upgrade (Xbox)
115) Use Those Blankets
116) Run For Your Lives
117) BIG: Ultimate Kills
118) Immersive Projectiles Throwing Weapons & Items
119) Bloodthirst – Vampire NPC’s Can Feed
120) Enhanced Blood Textures
121) Dovahkiin Can, Sit, Kneel, and Lay Down
122) Large Stagger Animation
123) The Ultimate Sit Animation: Males
124) Female Sitting Animation Replacer
125) Immersive Lap Sitting
126) Kissing – Immersive Lovers Complete
127) Marriage All Xbox1
128) Odin – Skyrim Magic Overhaul
129) Mysticism – A Magic Overhaul (v.6)
130) Forgotten Spells
131) Balanced New Spells
132) Phenderix Magic Evolved
133) Radiant Dialogue SE
134) More Dialogue Options
135) More Dialogue Options – Immersive Citizens Patch
136) Misc Dialogue Edits & More Dialogue
137) Misc Dialogue Edits & More Dialogue – Immersive Citizens Patch
138) More To Say 9.0.2
139) Relationship Dialogue Overhaul
140) RDO - CRF + USSEP Patch
141) Young Lovers – Expanded Voices
142) Better Intimidation
143) Realistic Conversations (XB1)
144) Realistic Water Two SE (v.2)
145) Realistic Water Two – BS Bruma Patch
146) X32 Maximum Skeleton Special Edition
147) At Your Pace AIO (USSEP Version)
148) Alternate Start – Live Another Life
149) DAR NPC & Player Animations
150) Color Patches Remover [XB1/SE]
Revised: March 23, 2023

Stepping into a minefield here, just to share some thoughts/questions I don't know where else to share. Important note: I identify as a feminist cishet male - I taught university classes on sex and gender. The topic is important to me, and interesting, and I think we need to have discussions rather than shutting them down. That's my take.
So: I would say transwomen are women in all the ways that matter societally. That is, in terms of gender -- which is an entirely constructed phenomenon anyway -- any person ought to be able to identify with/take on any gender role or descriptor they feel applies to them and I can't think of a good reason to dispute it. Let me also say up front to be clear that there's no reason to ever harm, mistreat, or speak unkindly to any human being in my book, so certainly no reason to do so to a trans person.
My "controversial" stance, I think, is that I don't know if it behooves people who were AFAB and transwomen to treat them exactly them same in terms of the problems they face in the world, and in terms of their lived experiences. Let me give some examples:
- A transwoman has never and will never have a period. Some women have a lot of trauma around their first periods. In Jewish culture, for example, some girls get slapped in the face when they have their first menses.
- A transwoman has never and will never have a miscarriage or give birth. This is certainly a big and important lived experience of many women that can be joyful and/or traumatic.
- Unless they transitioned very young, a lot of transwomen won't have had men expose themselves to them in dark alleys as teens, or been masturbated at. Because at the age this happens traumatically to a lot of young women (say, 12/13) many transwomen were pretransition, and men rarely expose themselves to or frotteurise young men (something like 57% of women experienced this sometime in their teen years; the percentage for young boys is much much lower).
- Same issue for teen/pretransitioned transwomen: 1 in 5 women but only 1 in 71 men have been raped.
On the other end of the spectrum, transwomen face some things that people who were AFAB rarely experience in terms of homo/transphobia, physical beatings, fear of revealing their history or their genitalia for fear of beating or death, etc.
I'm not meaning to use these differences to "show" anyone how transwomen aren't "really" women or to separate them in any meaningful way based on treatment, law, or policy. But I am meaning to point out that there may be issues that people who were AFAB face that transwomen may not truly understand (though they can certainly empathize), and that the reverse is also true. When we say "a transwoman is a woman in every single way!" it strikes me that we're robbing people who were AFAB of some lived experiences that they do NOT share with transwomen, and likewise we're conflating the unique lived experiences of transwomen with the everyday garden variety person who's AFAB that's likely always "passed" as female and never had that questioned.
Ultimately, then, in order to serve the needs of both, and to honor both's very unique lived experiences, treating all women as "the same" is really a bit of a thoughtless oversimplification, isn't it? In the same way that saying "all Asians experience X the same way" would be inaccurate and unfair to the different experiences had by Chinese, Korean, Vietnamese, Cambodian, Thai, Filipino, etc., people.
NOW: I understand that some of "transwomen are women in all ways" is simply an act of solidarity, because no one is telling Vietnamese people that they aren't really Asian and beating them up for it. I recognize that idiots need to be reminded and reinforced frequently that generally speaking, there's no reason to treat a transperson any differently than the gender that they present as. But isn't there a higher-level discussion to be had here among people who already accept that premise about the ways in which we can serve both communities by -- after, of course, in some ways uniting them and making them completely equal -- recognizing the ways in which their experiences have been markedly different?
I am 100% open to all thoughtful, civil, reasonable, non-insult-heavy responses from people who are interested in this discussion, even if they disagree with my premises. Know that if your entire response is an ad hominem attack, entirely based on the fact that I'm male and making no attempt to interact with the intellectual content of my post, or just straight-up mean and nasty, I will be unlikely to respond or I may simply block you. The internet is an ugly, ugly place, and I'm not into it. I'm a human being, too, with a puppy and a wife I love very much. Remember that as you type your response! I promise to give you the same respect back if you do.

Philadelphia 76ers (49-23) @ Golden State Warriors (38-36)

• Game Time: March 24, 2023 @ 10:00 PM EDT
• Venue: Chase Center - San Francisco, CA
• TV: National: NBA TV, Philadelphia: NBCSP, Golden State: NBCSBA
• Radio: Philadelphia: WPEN, Golden State: KGMZ-FM
• NBA Game Summary / Charts

Matchup History

Date	Location	Result
12/16/2022	Philadelphia	Win 118-106
12/11/2021	Philadelphia	Win 102-93
11/24/2021	Golden State	Loss 116-96
04/19/2021	Philadelphia	Loss 107-96
03/23/2021	Golden State	Win 108-98

Season Stats

Team	PTS	REB	AST	STL	BLK	TO	FG%	3P%	FT%
76ers	115.4	41.0	25.3	7.8	4.8	12.8	0.486	0.389	0.835
Warriors	118.4	44.2	29.6	7.1	3.9	15.7	0.477	0.382	0.794

Team Leaders

	76ers	Warriors
PTS	Joel Embiid (33.2)	(21.8) Klay Thompson
REB	Joel Embiid (10.2)	(9.1) Kevon Looney
AST	James Harden (10.8)	(6.8) Draymond Green
BLK	Joel Embiid (1.75)	(0.82) Draymond Green

Eastern Conference Standings

Rank	Team	W	L	Pct	GB	Conf	Home	Away	L10	Strk
1	Milwaukee Bucks	52	20	0.722	-	30-15	30-7	22-13	7-3	W 2
2	Boston Celtics	50	23	0.685	2.5	29-16	26-9	24-14	5-5	W 1
3	Philadelphia 76ers	49	23	0.681	3.0	30-16	26-11	23-12	9-1	W 1
4	Cleveland Cavaliers	47	28	0.627	6.5	31-15	29-8	18-20	8-2	W 3
5	New York Knicks	42	33	0.56	11.5	28-19	20-17	22-16	4-6	L 3
6	Miami Heat	40	34	0.541	13.0	21-24	25-13	15-21	7-3	W 2
7	Brooklyn Nets	39	34	0.534	13.5	26-20	19-16	20-18	4-6	L 5
8	Atlanta Hawks	36	37	0.493	16.5	22-23	20-15	16-22	4-6	L 1

League Scoreboard

Away	Score	Home	Status
Indiana Pacers	82-109	Boston Celtics	4th Qtr
San Antonio Spurs	111-127	Washington Wizards	4th Qtr
Detroit Pistons	59-77	Toronto Raptors	3rd Qtr
Houston Rockets	52-83	Memphis Grizzlies	Halftime
Charlotte Hornets	37-26	Dallas Mavericks	1st Qtr
Milwaukee Bucks	-	Utah Jazz	9:00 pm ET
Chicago Bulls	-	Portland Trail Blazers	10:00 pm ET
Phoenix Suns	-	Sacramento Kings	10:00 pm ET
Oklahoma City Thunder	-	Los Angeles Lakers	10:30 pm ET

^{Last Updated: 03/24/2023 09:06:11 PM EDT}

Braves @ Red Sox - Fri, Mar 24

Game Status: Final - Score: 9-8 Red Sox

Links & Info

• MLB Gameday
• Game Graphs
• Savant Gamefeed

	Braves Batters	AB	R	H	RBI	BB	K	LOB	AVG	OBP	SLG
1	Acuña Jr. - RF	4	0	0	0	0	2	3	.286	.375	.333
	Zebrowski - C	2	1	1	2	0	1	0	.500	.500	2.000
2	Olson - 1B	2	1	2	0	2	0	0	.472	.548	1.111
	1-Dunand - 1B	1	3	1	0	1	0	0	.143	.200	.250
3	Riley, A - 3B	3	0	0	0	1	1	3	.273	.415	.515
	Bunnell - 3B	2	1	2	0	0	0	0	.667	.778	.667
4	Ozuna - LF	4	0	0	0	0	0	5	.319	.360	.489
	Moritz - LF	1	0	1	1	1	0	0	.750	.800	.750
5	Hilliard - CF	3	0	1	1	1	0	1	.390	.490	.561
	Kilpatrick Jr. - CF	2	0	1	2	0	0	2	.200	.333	.200
6	Albies - 2B	3	1	2	1	1	1	0	.286	.367	.571
	Ogans - 2B	1	0	0	0	1	1	2	.286	.375	.286
7	Murphy, S - C	3	0	2	1	1	0	0	.250	.357	.333
	Paolini - RF	1	0	0	0	0	0	3	.500	.500	1.000
8	Alvarez - DH	3	0	1	0	0	1	3	.333	.333	.500
	a-Pearson - DH	2	0	0	0	0	1	3	.000	.000	.000
9	Arcia, Or - SS	3	0	2	0	0	0	2	.333	.436	.545
	Park - SS	2	1	1	0	0	0	0	.333	.455	.333
	Totals	42	8	17	8	9	8	27

Braves
a-Struck out for Alvarez in the 7th. 1-Ran for Olson in the 7th.
BATTING: 2B: Murphy, S (2, Pivetta); Arcia, Or (1, Pivetta); Dunand (3, Martin). HR: Albies (4, 4th inning off Pivetta, 0 on, 0 out); Zebrowski (1, 9th inning off Jansen, 1 on, 1 out). TB: Albies 5; Alvarez; Arcia, Or 3; Bunnell 2; Dunand 2; Hilliard; Kilpatrick Jr.; Moritz; Murphy, S 3; Olson 2; Park; Zebrowski 4. RBI: Albies (12); Hilliard (9); Kilpatrick Jr. 2 (2); Moritz (2); Murphy, S (2); Zebrowski 2 (2). 2-out RBI: Moritz; Hilliard; Kilpatrick Jr.; Murphy, S. Runners left in scoring position, 2 out: Acuña Jr. 2; Pearson 2; Arcia, Or 2; Ogans 2; Paolini 2. GIDP: Alvarez. Team RISP: 4-for-12. Team LOB: 16.
FIELDING: DP: 2 (Olson-Arcia, Or-Olson; Arcia, Or-Olson).

	Red Sox Batters	AB	R	H	RBI	BB	K	LOB	AVG	OBP	SLG
1	Verdugo - RF	3	0	1	0	0	1	1	.500	.500	.500
	a-Refsnyder - RF	2	0	2	3	0	0	0	.150	.320	.300
2	Devers - 3B	4	1	1	0	1	1	3	.296	.367	.407
3	Turner, J - 1B	4	1	3	2	0	1	1	.368	.520	.526
	Palka - 1B	1	0	0	0	0	0	1	.256	.348	.385
4	Yoshida - LF	2	0	0	0	1	0	2	.143	.250	.286
	Duran, Ja - LF	2	1	1	0	0	0	1	.385	.529	.846
5	Duvall - CF	5	1	1	0	0	2	4	.273	.365	.636
6	Casas - DH	5	1	2	2	0	0	2	.360	.400	.640
7	Arroyo - 2B	4	2	3	1	0	0	0	.339	.339	.518
8	McGuire - C	3	2	1	0	0	1	2	.206	.275	.324
9	Hernández, K - SS	3	0	1	1	0	0	2	.136	.200	.136
	Totals	38	9	16	9	2	6	19

Red Sox
a-Doubled for Verdugo in the 6th.
BATTING: 2B: Devers (3, Dodd); Duvall (4, Dodd); Arroyo (4, Mejia); Refsnyder 2 (3, Mejia, Mejia); Duran, Ja (3, Harvey, J). HR: Turner, J (1, 3rd inning off Dodd, 1 on, 2 out); Casas (3, 9th inning off Harvey, J, 1 on, 1 out). TB: Arroyo 4; Casas 5; Devers 2; Duran, Ja 2; Duvall 2; Hernández, K; McGuire; Refsnyder 4; Turner, J 6; Verdugo. RBI: Arroyo (9); Casas 2 (9); Hernández, K (1); Refsnyder 3 (9); Turner, J 2 (3). 2-out RBI: Refsnyder 2; Turner, J 2. Runners left in scoring position, 2 out: Palka; Casas; Devers; Yoshida; Duvall. SF: Hernández, K. GIDP: McGuire; Verdugo. Team RISP: 3-for-14. Team LOB: 8.
FIELDING: DP: (Arroyo-Hernández, K-Turner, J).

Braves Pitchers	IP	H	R	ER	BB	K	HR	P-S	ERA
Dodd	5.0	8	3	3	2	5	1	39-31	2.00
Mejia	3.0	6	4	4	0	1	0	20-18	12.00
Harvey, J (L, 0-1)(BS, 1)	0.1	2	2	2	0	0	1	5-3	135.00
Totals	8.1	16	9	9	2	6	2

Red Sox Pitchers	IP	H	R	ER	BB	K	HR	P-S	ERA
Pivetta	6.0	10	2	2	2	5	1	50-38	6.11
Mosqueda (H, 3)	0.2	0	1	1	4	0	0	18-2	2.57
Arias (H, 2)	0.1	0	0	0	0	1	0	3-3	4.50
Martin (BS, 1)	1.0	4	2	2	1	1	0	14-9	7.50
Jansen (BS, 1)	0.1	2	3	3	1	0	1	14-7	7.71
Booser (W, 1-0)	0.2	1	0	0	1	1	0	9-5	0.00
Totals	9.0	17	8	8	9	8	2

Game Info
WP: Mejia.
HBP: McGuire (by Mejia).
Groundouts-flyouts: Dodd 7-0; Mejia 2-4; Harvey, J 1-0; Pivetta 3-5; Mosqueda 0-1; Arias 0-0; Martin 2-0; Jansen 0-1; Booser 1-0.
Batters faced: Dodd 23; Mejia 16; Harvey, J 3; Pivetta 28; Mosqueda 6; Arias 1; Martin 8; Jansen 4; Booser 4.
Inherited runners-scored: Mejia 1-1; Arias 3-0; Booser 1-1.
Umpires: HP: Andy Fletcher. 1B: Marvin Hudson. 2B: Brian O'Nora. 3B: John Libka.
Weather: 83 degrees, Clear.
Wind: 13 mph, R To L.
First pitch: 6:05 PM.
T: 2:52.
Att: 9,199.
Venue: JetBlue Park.
March 24, 2023

Inning	Scoring Play	Score
Top 3	Sam Hilliard singles on a ground ball. Matt Olson scores. Austin Riley out at 3rd, third baseman Rafael Devers.	1-0 ATL
Bottom 3	Justin Turner homers (1) on a fly ball to right center field. Rafael Devers scores.	2-1 BOS
Top 4	Ozzie Albies homers (4) on a fly ball to right field.	2-2
Bottom 6	Christian Arroyo doubles (4) on a fly ball to center fielder Sam Hilliard. Adam Duvall scores.	3-2 BOS
Bottom 6	Rob Refsnyder doubles (2) on a fly ball to left fielder Marcell Ozuna. Christian Arroyo scores. Reese McGuire scores.	5-2 BOS
Top 7	Sean Murphy walks. Joe Dunand scores. Sam Hilliard to 3rd. Ozzie Albies to 2nd.	5-3 BOS
Top 8	Andrew Moritz singles on a ground ball to third baseman Rafael Devers. Joe Dunand scores. Cade Bunnell to 3rd.	5-4 BOS
Top 8	Kevin Kilpatrick Jr. singles on a line drive to right fielder Rob Refsnyder. Cade Bunnell scores. Andrew Moritz to 3rd.	5-5
Bottom 8	Enrique Hernandez out on a sacrifice fly to center fielder Kevin Kilpatrick Jr. Christian Arroyo scores.	6-5 BOS
Bottom 8	Rob Refsnyder doubles (3) on a fly ball to center fielder Kevin Kilpatrick Jr. Reese McGuire scores.	7-5 BOS
Top 9	Adam Zebrowski homers (1) on a fly ball to right field. Hoy Park scores.	7-7
Top 9	Kevin Kilpatrick Jr. grounds out, second baseman Christian Arroyo to first baseman Daniel Palka. Joe Dunand scores. Cade Bunnell to 3rd. Andrew Moritz to 2nd.	8-7 ATL
Bottom 9	Triston Casas homers (3) on a fly ball to right field. Jarren Duran scores.	9-8 BOS

Team	Highlight
BOS	Rafael Devers' double (00:00:27)
ATL	Sean Murphy's ground-rule double (00:00:22)
BOS	Justin Turner's 1st HR of spring (00:00:23)
ATL	Ozzie Albies' solo home run (00:00:25)
ATL	Dylan Dodd's five strikeouts (00:00:40)

	1	2	3	4	5	6	7	8	9		R	H	E	LOB
Braves	0	0	1	1	0	0	1	2	3		8	17	0	16
Red Sox	0	0	2	0	0	3	0	2	2		9	16	0	8

Decisions

• Winner: Cam Booser (1-0, 0.00)
• Loser: Joe Harvey (0-1, 135.00)

Division Scoreboard

NYM 11 @ TB 2 - Final
STL 7 @ WSH 1 - Final
PHI 3 @ TOR 6 - Final
HOU 2 @ MIA 3 - Game Over
Next Braves Game: Sat, Mar 25, 01:05 PM EDT @ Twins
^{Last Updated: 03/24/2023 09:03:17 PM EDT}

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Friday, March 24, 2023, Non Real Time Meeting
Friday, March 17, 2023, Non Real Time Meeting
Welcome to this non-real time meeting of codependency_12steps
Hi, I’m u/solid_jump_6828. I’m a recovered codependent and your leader for this meeting. Will those who wish, please join me in the Serenity Prayer: God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference. Thy will, not mine, be done.
Strong sponsorship is necessary to live a recovered life. Sponsors are recovered codependents committed to living the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions to the best of their ability. Sponsors share their program up to the level of their experience and strengthen their recovery through this service to others. To find a sponsor, look for someone who has what you want and ask how he or she is achieving it. Will all sponsors please identify themselves in their post?
Suggested guidelines for sharing: As you share your experience and strength, please also share your hope. Please confine your sharing to your experience with the illness of codependency, the solution offered by the twelve steps and your own recovery from codependency, rather than just the events of the day or week. When responding to other member’s posts, please focus on your personal experience rather than advice giving. If you are having difficulties, share how you use the program to deal with them. If you need to talk more about your difficulties and seek solutions, we suggest you speak to your sponsor and other members after the meeting.
Share on how this paragraph relates to the illness of codependency and the solution offered by the Twelve Steps. Today we are studying the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, Page 44 -45:
"If a mere code of morals or a better philosophy of life were sufficient to overcome alcoholism, many of us would have recovered long ago. But we found that such codes and philosophies did not save us, no matter how much we tried. We could wish to be moral, we could wish to be philosophically comforted, in fact, we could will these things with all our might, but the needed power wasn't there. Our human resources, as marshalled by the will, were not sufficient; they failed utterly."
Anonymous, Fourth Edition (p. 44-45). Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc.
Closing: Freedom from codependency is possible by living a Twelve Step way of life. The *Big Book of Alcoholic Anonymous and a recovered sponsor are all you need to get started. Feel free to reach out by private message to newcomers, returning members, and each other. From the Big Book page 164: "Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny. May God bless you and keep you- until then."
*Why the Big Book? Time and experience have proven it to be the most successful approach to the Steps no matter what the addictive problem may be (this includes codependency). We also know it to be the purest 12 Step document in existence. It worked for the founders of Twelve Step and it works for us today. If you don't have a copy of the Big Book you can access one for free: https://www.aa.org/the-big-book