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2023.06.01 20:08 beardinthewild I'm not sure what to make of this - are these signs that my wife is going through a mid-life crisis?
First off, huge thanks to anyone answering my question. I'm sure what I'm about to share will sound petty, but it's been affecting me for some time now, and I'm open to anything that might help me not be so bothered... or perhaps hurt is the more appropriate word.
My wife and I have been together for over 25 years, married for all but a few of those. We have 3 kids aged 15, 13, and 11. My wife chose to be a SAHM after our first was born, which I highly respected. I have a decent paying career, but in order to get ahead, I started a small side-business that nearly doubles our income - it's easily 40+ hours per week of work, but I'm able to do a lot of it from my day job, so I only end up working 6-10 hours/week from home, usually when my family is sleeping.
This year has been one of the strangest for my marriage, for a variety of reasons I won't get fully into here, but suffice to say my wife is experiencing some hormonal changes that have contributed to the strangeness. Anyway, we've adapted and things are feeling more or less normal at this point.
However, she seems to have developed a near obsession with doing things. Don't get me wrong, we've always loved doing things like travelling, going to shows, and such. But this last year has been something else. Whereas in the past, we'd schedule some sort of trip/event every 2-3 months (far more than any of our friends or family), we have something going every single month this year. We're not just talking movie dates, but multiple nights away from home. We've already done one 10 day trip across the country, we're leaving on a 16 day trip to another country in 2 weeks, and a month after that, we're heading off for another week to a different state. Sprinkled between all of that are various weekend trips.
This all sounds great, and honestly, I'd be 100% on board if it weren't for 2 main issues:
Then last night, she tells me she learned of an event happening the weekend between 2 other upcoming trips... that she wants to go to with just our daughter.
I get it, I could be more assertive with planning stuff for us if that's what I really want. The problem I'm having with that is we've already got so much planned, I'm basically operating on full throttle as it is just to get work done. The part that hurts is that, yet again, she's looking into things that don't involve me.
I was talking with some people I work with (in passing), and one of them jokingly commented that she's going through a mid-life crisis. We are both in our 40s, so the timing makes sense, but I always thought a mid-life crisis involved spending money on unnecessary things like cars and such. Now I'm wondering if this is maybe her way of dealing with it?
tl;dr: wife can't seem to stop planning trips this year, despite constant complaints about our finances, and I'm hurt that none of the plans are just the 2 of us (waa waa, I know).
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My wife and I have been together for over 25 years, married for all but a few of those. We have 3 kids aged 15, 13, and 11. My wife chose to be a SAHM after our first was born, which I highly respected. I have a decent paying career, but in order to get ahead, I started a small side-business that nearly doubles our income - it's easily 40+ hours per week of work, but I'm able to do a lot of it from my day job, so I only end up working 6-10 hours/week from home, usually when my family is sleeping.
This year has been one of the strangest for my marriage, for a variety of reasons I won't get fully into here, but suffice to say my wife is experiencing some hormonal changes that have contributed to the strangeness. Anyway, we've adapted and things are feeling more or less normal at this point.
However, she seems to have developed a near obsession with doing things. Don't get me wrong, we've always loved doing things like travelling, going to shows, and such. But this last year has been something else. Whereas in the past, we'd schedule some sort of trip/event every 2-3 months (far more than any of our friends or family), we have something going every single month this year. We're not just talking movie dates, but multiple nights away from home. We've already done one 10 day trip across the country, we're leaving on a 16 day trip to another country in 2 weeks, and a month after that, we're heading off for another week to a different state. Sprinkled between all of that are various weekend trips.
This all sounds great, and honestly, I'd be 100% on board if it weren't for 2 main issues:
- My wife is constantly complaining about our finances, especially with the current inflation. While she has toyed with the idea of going back to work, it's obvious she doesn't want to, which I fully support. The problem is, these trips aren't cheap, and while I work my ass off to ensure we're able to do them, her complaining makes me feel like it's not enough. She never (ever) puts it on me, I just end up feeling so confused because, in my mind, if we can't afford it, we shouldn't be doing it, yet we're doing a lot of it.
- None of the trips are just my wife and me. The last time we did something with just the 2 of us (sans kids), it was meeting friends for a sort of weekend reunion back in October, so it hasn't been forever. Still, of the many things planned for this year, 4 are her with girlfriends and the rest are with the entire family.
Then last night, she tells me she learned of an event happening the weekend between 2 other upcoming trips... that she wants to go to with just our daughter.
I get it, I could be more assertive with planning stuff for us if that's what I really want. The problem I'm having with that is we've already got so much planned, I'm basically operating on full throttle as it is just to get work done. The part that hurts is that, yet again, she's looking into things that don't involve me.
I was talking with some people I work with (in passing), and one of them jokingly commented that she's going through a mid-life crisis. We are both in our 40s, so the timing makes sense, but I always thought a mid-life crisis involved spending money on unnecessary things like cars and such. Now I'm wondering if this is maybe her way of dealing with it?
2023.06.01 20:07 RuXpin69 Best chapter summary videos for Deadhouse Gates
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMyHoEQfSveK1JRNe5X7857MZX7B3u9u7
I tried to listen to the available podcasts for Deadhouse Gates but the two I found were absolutely terrible. This guy on YouTube covers all the material from each chapter for an easy to understand summary, and apparently does all the books.
I was also wondering if anyone provides a visual map of the journeys for each character group for each book?
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I tried to listen to the available podcasts for Deadhouse Gates but the two I found were absolutely terrible. This guy on YouTube covers all the material from each chapter for an easy to understand summary, and apparently does all the books.
I was also wondering if anyone provides a visual map of the journeys for each character group for each book?
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2023.06.01 20:07 Pinkatink 24 [F4R] back at it again!
Hiiii, I always find my way back here. I’m looking for someone to talk to. I’m a bit lonely lately and just looking for someone who genuinely wants to talk and get to know me. I’m currently not working and have a lot of free time. I get along better with people who are older than 27. I love all kinds music and making Spotify playlist for people. I am a unique kind of girl. I have pictures of myself on my profile. Let’s get to know each other 😁
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2023.06.01 20:07 sunshineparadox_ something you said stuck with me, even though it's now been years
Dear person,
This is hard to write, for one thing. I almost didn't write it at all, even unseen. Setting it to strangers, because that's who you are now.
Yesterday, another person in my field used medical information to mock me for a really stupid thing. It would've been super easy to just not. It was in my profile, but it wasn't a part of the conversation. When I called it out, he deleted it but kept making fun of my victim complex. Thing is, the medical note is relevant because it impacts communication. I'm not trying to get people to feel bad. I'm trying to warn about a limitation. We are connected by *work*. He is customer facing. He is using his title/company as brag-worthy while in the same conversation mocking the stroke.
I dunno anymore when I'm upset about something legitimate or not. It's not just this.
I don't remember what you said to him. I don't remember that conversation even happening. All I remember is the last thing you said to me. There's just this hole after the coma happened. I don't blame you for whatever your take on everything was; without my own memory I have to assume yours is legit. I have spots of memory of things like reaching for my phone and passing out instead.
I didn't ask for your emotional support, though. Go back and look. That was the point of that article.
I should be apologizing to you, but I don't think it has any value to you. If it does, I am deeply sorry, and I don't expect anything (if so - nothing good) from saying it. I hope you don't see this. It's too much to put on one person. She summed it up pretty well. I wanted to be free of guilt, but that's not fair. My behavioral changes, the new therapist, taking care of my physical health (the stomach thing was true, and it's relevant because of medicine efficacy) because that impacts emotional health too - that's for everyone here now and in the future.
I have vague ideas of things I said in that time period, and none of them were true. They're humiliating and I have no insight or justification. The truth was - while sane and now - is that you reminded me of the people I knew in guitar classes but with better politics. Cooler, older kids who knew more who were goth or goth adjacent, and I desperately wanted to join. Except I was 11, and they were 17-18. I wasn't allowed the style, I wasn't allowed the music. I don't know your music preferences, but I think of a specific guy who was able to play the guitar correctly with it behind his back. I don't remember his name, though. I always wished I could be like *that*.
I apologized to my therapist today for being cranky about long COVID. I can't lean on him even though that's his *job*, because what if I'm lashing out at him, too? What if? Do I have a right to complain about that? I'm scared of it. I drove off the therapist at the same time you went NC with me, so it's a genuine fear and not something I'm trying to bludgeon you with. The one who cut me off when the cat died. I probably did put way too much on her. I should've stayed off the entire fucking Internet for the next two weeks.
I hope this isn't boundary breaking. I really, really hope not. It's tied up in "I hope you don't see this". If I hear that it is, I'll take it down asap. No idea if you'd even sub here. I don't want to do or be that person now that I evened out and also got a reality check of actual life/death problems and what is actually important. I want to be sincerely open and supportive and a good listener even if I have my own shit going on. I bought myself a journal. I write in it long form to vent. Writing about how I'm mad at politicians and the lack of concern for climate crisis, COVID in fucking glitter gel pens.
You probably did me a massive favor in saying what you did. And a massive favor to those around me. Even the grief I had at God/cosmic RNG/myself for getting sick and it being nbd somehow hurt people. I lashed out then, too. Also in general. It wasn't the result of going off the rails, so it was temporary and also it was actual grief for the people I loved that didn't care back. Not one community, in general. But I scaled it back right away. My cousin said a thoughtful, true thing, and I trusted him, so I removed what I said and just hoped his experience would also be mine. So far, he's been right.
Even though it's caused me a lot of problems in knowing when to speak if at all, it's probably also why I pulled back and listened to someone I trusted. Thanks for that, I guess.
-sunshine
PS. Person from Twitter who gave me shit about setting up New Year's resolutions - no this isn't about them. Also, that was after serious memory and language loss. Even if you were right about my intentions - you weren't - the timeline of speaking with you and the stroke were right next to each other. Nor would it be my last hospitalization of the year. Hope there's solace in the karma that came to visit. Not sarcastic, I think I deserved all of that.Impact mattered over intent. My church growing up sure thinks I deserved it all and has said it more than once.
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This is hard to write, for one thing. I almost didn't write it at all, even unseen. Setting it to strangers, because that's who you are now.
Yesterday, another person in my field used medical information to mock me for a really stupid thing. It would've been super easy to just not. It was in my profile, but it wasn't a part of the conversation. When I called it out, he deleted it but kept making fun of my victim complex. Thing is, the medical note is relevant because it impacts communication. I'm not trying to get people to feel bad. I'm trying to warn about a limitation. We are connected by *work*. He is customer facing. He is using his title/company as brag-worthy while in the same conversation mocking the stroke.
I dunno anymore when I'm upset about something legitimate or not. It's not just this.
I don't remember what you said to him. I don't remember that conversation even happening. All I remember is the last thing you said to me. There's just this hole after the coma happened. I don't blame you for whatever your take on everything was; without my own memory I have to assume yours is legit. I have spots of memory of things like reaching for my phone and passing out instead.
I didn't ask for your emotional support, though. Go back and look. That was the point of that article.
I should be apologizing to you, but I don't think it has any value to you. If it does, I am deeply sorry, and I don't expect anything (if so - nothing good) from saying it. I hope you don't see this. It's too much to put on one person. She summed it up pretty well. I wanted to be free of guilt, but that's not fair. My behavioral changes, the new therapist, taking care of my physical health (the stomach thing was true, and it's relevant because of medicine efficacy) because that impacts emotional health too - that's for everyone here now and in the future.
I have vague ideas of things I said in that time period, and none of them were true. They're humiliating and I have no insight or justification. The truth was - while sane and now - is that you reminded me of the people I knew in guitar classes but with better politics. Cooler, older kids who knew more who were goth or goth adjacent, and I desperately wanted to join. Except I was 11, and they were 17-18. I wasn't allowed the style, I wasn't allowed the music. I don't know your music preferences, but I think of a specific guy who was able to play the guitar correctly with it behind his back. I don't remember his name, though. I always wished I could be like *that*.
I apologized to my therapist today for being cranky about long COVID. I can't lean on him even though that's his *job*, because what if I'm lashing out at him, too? What if? Do I have a right to complain about that? I'm scared of it. I drove off the therapist at the same time you went NC with me, so it's a genuine fear and not something I'm trying to bludgeon you with. The one who cut me off when the cat died. I probably did put way too much on her. I should've stayed off the entire fucking Internet for the next two weeks.
I hope this isn't boundary breaking. I really, really hope not. It's tied up in "I hope you don't see this". If I hear that it is, I'll take it down asap. No idea if you'd even sub here. I don't want to do or be that person now that I evened out and also got a reality check of actual life/death problems and what is actually important. I want to be sincerely open and supportive and a good listener even if I have my own shit going on. I bought myself a journal. I write in it long form to vent. Writing about how I'm mad at politicians and the lack of concern for climate crisis, COVID in fucking glitter gel pens.
You probably did me a massive favor in saying what you did. And a massive favor to those around me. Even the grief I had at God/cosmic RNG/myself for getting sick and it being nbd somehow hurt people. I lashed out then, too. Also in general. It wasn't the result of going off the rails, so it was temporary and also it was actual grief for the people I loved that didn't care back. Not one community, in general. But I scaled it back right away. My cousin said a thoughtful, true thing, and I trusted him, so I removed what I said and just hoped his experience would also be mine. So far, he's been right.
Even though it's caused me a lot of problems in knowing when to speak if at all, it's probably also why I pulled back and listened to someone I trusted. Thanks for that, I guess.
-sunshine
PS. Person from Twitter who gave me shit about setting up New Year's resolutions - no this isn't about them. Also, that was after serious memory and language loss. Even if you were right about my intentions - you weren't - the timeline of speaking with you and the stroke were right next to each other. Nor would it be my last hospitalization of the year. Hope there's solace in the karma that came to visit. Not sarcastic, I think I deserved all of that.Impact mattered over intent. My church growing up sure thinks I deserved it all and has said it more than once.
2023.06.01 20:06 OnlyCosmia Game Changer - Controlled - Episode 1
Game Changer - Controlled
Hello all and welcome to Game Changer!
Previously, we have removed the ability to place blocks, and gone back to play a full vanilla game. Now, we are playing an FFA UHC with controllers! Each player used two key mods: the Proximity Chat mod, just for funsies, and the Controller mod, which allows full compatibility with almost any controller that functions on a PC. Due to hardware restrictions, we had a much smaller season this time around as only about half of our players even owned a controller. We also brought in some guests to beefen up the competition a little!We also decided to try something a little different with the episode formatting. This time around, we have 30 minute episodes, with meetup starting episode 4. Episodes will be once again airing daily!
Predictions!
Predictions are now closed! We thank you all for your intruiging submissions, we will revisit them come the Finale. For now, here is what the organizers predicted:Austin's Predictions: "Due to the difficulty a controller can pose on the players, I predict there will be 1-3 pve deaths. I think most fights will be oriented to melee due to how janky it is to try and bow fight, where your target is much smaller compared to meleeing someone who takes up much more of your screen. I also think Xbox controller players will thrive more because Xbox controllers are better. People who play more on a controller will obviously be more likely to succeed in comparison to people who don't use theirs as much. I also doubt conventional UHC skill will translate much, if at all. MVPs: aalaan, MercuryParadox, and ceije. LVPs: zCent, ChrisCD, and azoof."
Lewis's Predictions: "Due to the fact that everyone is going to be super aware of PvE being hard, they're going to try extra hard and be extra careful resulting in 0 PvE deaths. There will be a few fights where people actually get away on 3 hearts or less due to the fact that hitting bow shots is going to be incredibly difficult. People are going to cave significantly less due to the fact that everything is going to be much slower, from crafting to movement. One or two people in particular are going to pick up the controls fairly quickly and they're going to be the ones that dominate in PvP. MVPs: MercuryParadox, ChrisCD, Ryfri. LVPs: Austronomical, zCent, Keelando"
I wonder how we did... I guess we will find out over the next few days.
Episode 1 Links (sorted by controller type & guests are italicized)
| Playstation | Xbox | Nintendo |
|---|---|---|
| automavic | aalaan | Keelando |
| azoof | Austronomical | |
| ChrisCD | ceije | |
| ColdBac | Hecticity | |
| MercuryParadox | TheSonicJoey | |
| pigghetti (lost episode 1) | VioletSin | |
| Randehh | zCent | |
| Ryfri | ||
| ThePeridotKnight | ||
Previous Episodes
Teaser TrailerIntro/Uncensored Trailer
Episode 0
Credits
Server: LeonTGProduction: Hecticity
Organization: Austronomical & Hecticity
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2023.06.01 20:06 robuonacc BO3 Overrated
Okay so I know there’s gonna be a lot of hate for what I’m about to get into. But as the title says, I think BO3 is so overrated and honestly the die hard fans be almost blind to their ignorance. Like don’t get me wrong BO3 is not bad at all, imo it’s the second best COD zombies. But people treat this game like there’s no comparison to the other games or like it’s so much better than it is. First of all, the biggest issue I have with BO3 is every fucking map except The Giant is locked behind immense amounts of map knowledge. You can’t just hop into a public lobby and learn from watching other people do stuff. It’s not enjoyable to have to look up a half hour long YouTube video for every map just to be able to go play them. And then to have to practice those set ups just to be able to play the game to the level it should be played. Second of all, people hate on BO4 for having tedious and hard EE steps but tbh it’s literally about the same as BO3 and BO2 EE’s (not comparing BOTD) Origins, DE, Shadows, and Revelations are all complex and tedious to set up, nobody talks about how tedious and wack it is to build some of the staffs/bows because the games have been out for so long but it’s honestly just bad steps for a lot of it. Yeah it’s easy if you’ve practiced it a lot but tbh Voyage’s and IX’s EE is easier than learning to build all the bows and staffs to me. Takes about the same time to get down. Third of all, nobody talks about all the horrible little hit boxes around the map designs. I literally constantly get stuck on stupid lil small debris hit boxes like a small rock just next to an actual obstacle (specifically thinking of the space inside of the rocket test site) but this has happened to me on multiple maps. The gameplay is more choppy than BO4 to me, not even like massively choppy but just not as smooth as BO4 but that’s pretty obvious because it’s a older game. But tbh the biggest thing is definitely how the entire game is locked behind immense amounts of map knowledge you will only get from watching videos on the maps. And yes I understand that’s a common thing in zombies but it’s excessive in BO3. There’s some more but these are my main points and I don’t wanna drag out this post too much lol. Either way please explain what is sooo loved about this game because it just seems like a less refined BO4 without the perk changes and specialist. Also you can probably tell I indirectly have also been saying DE and Origins are overrated.
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2023.06.01 20:06 Subject-Object 31 [M4F] San Jose, California - Tell me your untold story
Maya Angelou said, "There’s no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside of you." We're all untold stories, unsaid voices that are untranslated and unstoppable. And that's why we want to reach out to others. To tell them our narrative and listen to theirs. I don't get the opportunity to converse with people often in real life. So that's why I'm here on reddit, because of this unspoken voice in me that wants to write, that wants to know someone's story. In doing so we're unraveling our bound stanzas, we're given gasps of air in the suffocating silence, we're making our abstract thoughts a concrete portrait.
I'm searching for a long-term correspondence, an intimate intellectual imaginative connection that travels into our unexplored continents, where we write freely without censoring our soul, following the relentless stream of consciousness to see where it leads. The most foreign place is another person's mind, because it's something we can never have access to, so what better way than to seek what is unattainable, what is forever out of my reach? I want to reach into it anyway, I want to write anyway even if the blueness in the sky is too far for my to reach, even if I don't know what it's like to be you, I want to try to understand. I want to understand because there's a painful passion that urges me to, an otherworldly desire to find someone who I get and who gets me, to find someplace sincere and wholesome and comfortable where the tumults and troubles of the world are diminished, where we can say the stuff we never get to say but want to.
I crave those long rambly heart-to-heart kind of conversations. The kind of conversations where you are an islet and the other person is an ocean, where you want to explore the sea that is their mind and it keeps on receding. The kind of conversations which leave you with a smile on your face that lasts all day. The kind of conversations that is like playing tennis without the net, free flowing and natural.
I use Reddit PM, not chat. Let's send fiery paragraphs of our passions, let's throw thunderbolts, let's gaze at the transcendent dreams that we have forgotten but which awaken, let's look at the small stuff of our days and see how they can be become big, let's talk about everything and anything meaningful and significant which evokes something visceral and vibrant in you. There's a wide variety of topics I'm interested in - science, art, culture, history, philosophy, psychology, politics, mythology, poetry, literature - we can draw parallels between different subjects. I want to draw connections to how your life is similar to the things I've read, to the collective tapestry of humanity. I want to know your interior and exterior, your worldview, your heaviness and your hope, what makes you the person you are. And maybe we'll become part of something greater than ourselves, as we realize what it means to be human through the eyes of another.
It would be nice if I could meet someone local, someone who shares my frequency, a kindred spirit, so I prefer people nearby. I live in the most expensive city in America where it's hard to make connections due to the hustle and grind culture here and I work a boring job, but I like to look up from the gutters to the sky to look at the vast space of potentialities, wondering if I'll ever find something in my life's journey. I'm an introverted individual, someone who’s curious about interdisciplinary topics. I'm tall, dark haired, and slim. My eyes are used to gazing at things in another dimension. I'm multiracial and have learned how to exist in the thresholds. Marriagefree, childfree, and petfree, there's not much I have in common with peers my age who are settling down, but I like to convince myself I'm fine with being alone. With a degree in liberal arts I'm a generalist rather than a specialist, and I'm all about knowing the reason behind everything.
C.S Lewis said, "Writing is like a 'lust,' or like 'scratching when you itch.' Writing comes as a result of a very strong impulse, and when it does come, I, for one, must get it out." Isn't it time you got it out? When's the last time you really got it on with someone, when you really got everything off your chest, when you didn't just say "I'm good"? I look forward to knowing the reason behind the things you do, at looking at your portrait, at reading your story.
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I'm searching for a long-term correspondence, an intimate intellectual imaginative connection that travels into our unexplored continents, where we write freely without censoring our soul, following the relentless stream of consciousness to see where it leads. The most foreign place is another person's mind, because it's something we can never have access to, so what better way than to seek what is unattainable, what is forever out of my reach? I want to reach into it anyway, I want to write anyway even if the blueness in the sky is too far for my to reach, even if I don't know what it's like to be you, I want to try to understand. I want to understand because there's a painful passion that urges me to, an otherworldly desire to find someone who I get and who gets me, to find someplace sincere and wholesome and comfortable where the tumults and troubles of the world are diminished, where we can say the stuff we never get to say but want to.
I crave those long rambly heart-to-heart kind of conversations. The kind of conversations where you are an islet and the other person is an ocean, where you want to explore the sea that is their mind and it keeps on receding. The kind of conversations which leave you with a smile on your face that lasts all day. The kind of conversations that is like playing tennis without the net, free flowing and natural.
I use Reddit PM, not chat. Let's send fiery paragraphs of our passions, let's throw thunderbolts, let's gaze at the transcendent dreams that we have forgotten but which awaken, let's look at the small stuff of our days and see how they can be become big, let's talk about everything and anything meaningful and significant which evokes something visceral and vibrant in you. There's a wide variety of topics I'm interested in - science, art, culture, history, philosophy, psychology, politics, mythology, poetry, literature - we can draw parallels between different subjects. I want to draw connections to how your life is similar to the things I've read, to the collective tapestry of humanity. I want to know your interior and exterior, your worldview, your heaviness and your hope, what makes you the person you are. And maybe we'll become part of something greater than ourselves, as we realize what it means to be human through the eyes of another.
It would be nice if I could meet someone local, someone who shares my frequency, a kindred spirit, so I prefer people nearby. I live in the most expensive city in America where it's hard to make connections due to the hustle and grind culture here and I work a boring job, but I like to look up from the gutters to the sky to look at the vast space of potentialities, wondering if I'll ever find something in my life's journey. I'm an introverted individual, someone who’s curious about interdisciplinary topics. I'm tall, dark haired, and slim. My eyes are used to gazing at things in another dimension. I'm multiracial and have learned how to exist in the thresholds. Marriagefree, childfree, and petfree, there's not much I have in common with peers my age who are settling down, but I like to convince myself I'm fine with being alone. With a degree in liberal arts I'm a generalist rather than a specialist, and I'm all about knowing the reason behind everything.
C.S Lewis said, "Writing is like a 'lust,' or like 'scratching when you itch.' Writing comes as a result of a very strong impulse, and when it does come, I, for one, must get it out." Isn't it time you got it out? When's the last time you really got it on with someone, when you really got everything off your chest, when you didn't just say "I'm good"? I look forward to knowing the reason behind the things you do, at looking at your portrait, at reading your story.
2023.06.01 20:06 Subject-Object 31 [M4F] San Jose, California - Tell me your untold story
Maya Angelou said, "There’s no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside of you." We're all untold stories, unsaid voices that are untranslated and unstoppable. And that's why we want to reach out to others. To tell them our narrative and listen to theirs. I don't get the opportunity to converse with people often in real life. So that's why I'm here on reddit, because of this unspoken voice in me that wants to write, that wants to know someone's story. In doing so we're unraveling our bound stanzas, we're given gasps of air in the suffocating silence, we're making our abstract thoughts a concrete portrait.
I'm searching for a long-term correspondence, an intimate intellectual imaginative connection that travels into our unexplored continents, where we write freely without censoring our soul, following the relentless stream of consciousness to see where it leads. The most foreign place is another person's mind, because it's something we can never have access to, so what better way than to seek what is unattainable, what is forever out of my reach? I want to reach into it anyway, I want to write anyway even if the blueness in the sky is too far for my to reach, even if I don't know what it's like to be you, I want to try to understand. I want to understand because there's a painful passion that urges me to, an otherworldly desire to find someone who I get and who gets me, to find someplace sincere and wholesome and comfortable where the tumults and troubles of the world are diminished, where we can say the stuff we never get to say but want to.
I crave those long rambly heart-to-heart kind of conversations. The kind of conversations where you are an islet and the other person is an ocean, where you want to explore the sea that is their mind and it keeps on receding. The kind of conversations which leave you with a smile on your face that lasts all day. The kind of conversations that is like playing tennis without the net, free flowing and natural.
I use Reddit PM, not chat. Let's send fiery paragraphs of our passions, let's throw thunderbolts, let's gaze at the transcendent dreams that we have forgotten but which awaken, let's look at the small stuff of our days and see how they can be become big, let's talk about everything and anything meaningful and significant which evokes something visceral and vibrant in you. There's a wide variety of topics I'm interested in - science, art, culture, history, philosophy, psychology, politics, mythology, poetry, literature - we can draw parallels between different subjects. I want to draw connections to how your life is similar to the things I've read, to the collective tapestry of humanity. I want to know your interior and exterior, your worldview, your heaviness and your hope, what makes you the person you are. And maybe we'll become part of something greater than ourselves, as we realize what it means to be human through the eyes of another.
It would be nice if I could meet someone local, someone who shares my frequency, a kindred spirit, so I prefer people nearby. I live in the most expensive city in America where it's hard to make connections due to the hustle and grind culture here and I work a boring job, but I like to look up from the gutters to the sky to look at the vast space of potentialities, wondering if I'll ever find something in my life's journey. I'm an introverted individual, someone who’s curious about interdisciplinary topics. I'm tall, dark haired, and slim. My eyes are used to gazing at things in another dimension. I'm multiracial and have learned how to exist in the thresholds. Marriagefree, childfree, and petfree, there's not much I have in common with peers my age who are settling down, but I like to convince myself I'm fine with being alone. With a degree in liberal arts I'm a generalist rather than a specialist, and I'm all about knowing the reason behind everything.
C.S Lewis said, "Writing is like a 'lust,' or like 'scratching when you itch.' Writing comes as a result of a very strong impulse, and when it does come, I, for one, must get it out." Isn't it time you got it out? When's the last time you really got it on with someone, when you really got everything off your chest, when you didn't just say "I'm good"? I look forward to knowing the reason behind the things you do, at looking at your portrait, at reading your story.
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I'm searching for a long-term correspondence, an intimate intellectual imaginative connection that travels into our unexplored continents, where we write freely without censoring our soul, following the relentless stream of consciousness to see where it leads. The most foreign place is another person's mind, because it's something we can never have access to, so what better way than to seek what is unattainable, what is forever out of my reach? I want to reach into it anyway, I want to write anyway even if the blueness in the sky is too far for my to reach, even if I don't know what it's like to be you, I want to try to understand. I want to understand because there's a painful passion that urges me to, an otherworldly desire to find someone who I get and who gets me, to find someplace sincere and wholesome and comfortable where the tumults and troubles of the world are diminished, where we can say the stuff we never get to say but want to.
I crave those long rambly heart-to-heart kind of conversations. The kind of conversations where you are an islet and the other person is an ocean, where you want to explore the sea that is their mind and it keeps on receding. The kind of conversations which leave you with a smile on your face that lasts all day. The kind of conversations that is like playing tennis without the net, free flowing and natural.
I use Reddit PM, not chat. Let's send fiery paragraphs of our passions, let's throw thunderbolts, let's gaze at the transcendent dreams that we have forgotten but which awaken, let's look at the small stuff of our days and see how they can be become big, let's talk about everything and anything meaningful and significant which evokes something visceral and vibrant in you. There's a wide variety of topics I'm interested in - science, art, culture, history, philosophy, psychology, politics, mythology, poetry, literature - we can draw parallels between different subjects. I want to draw connections to how your life is similar to the things I've read, to the collective tapestry of humanity. I want to know your interior and exterior, your worldview, your heaviness and your hope, what makes you the person you are. And maybe we'll become part of something greater than ourselves, as we realize what it means to be human through the eyes of another.
It would be nice if I could meet someone local, someone who shares my frequency, a kindred spirit, so I prefer people nearby. I live in the most expensive city in America where it's hard to make connections due to the hustle and grind culture here and I work a boring job, but I like to look up from the gutters to the sky to look at the vast space of potentialities, wondering if I'll ever find something in my life's journey. I'm an introverted individual, someone who’s curious about interdisciplinary topics. I'm tall, dark haired, and slim. My eyes are used to gazing at things in another dimension. I'm multiracial and have learned how to exist in the thresholds. Marriagefree, childfree, and petfree, there's not much I have in common with peers my age who are settling down, but I like to convince myself I'm fine with being alone. With a degree in liberal arts I'm a generalist rather than a specialist, and I'm all about knowing the reason behind everything.
C.S Lewis said, "Writing is like a 'lust,' or like 'scratching when you itch.' Writing comes as a result of a very strong impulse, and when it does come, I, for one, must get it out." Isn't it time you got it out? When's the last time you really got it on with someone, when you really got everything off your chest, when you didn't just say "I'm good"? I look forward to knowing the reason behind the things you do, at looking at your portrait, at reading your story.
2023.06.01 20:05 lifeisunfair123 26 [M4M] Long term FWB?
Is there anyone here looking for long term FWB? Someone you can go out with, watch movies, eat out, and have casual sex every now and then and anything in between. Masarap lang magkaroon ng constant ulit. I won’t mind if you see still other people as well for sex or dates. Basta whenever one party does not want to continue the set up anymore, he’d have to inform the other party as a sign of mature individual. We can talk more about this in the chat.
about me: 5’7, working professional, decent and clean (recently tested as of may 2023 - both HIV and STD), wears eyeglasses, cute (but i’ve had a fair share of rejections as well!), discreet and closeted, average body (i only do home workouts so medyo above average? you’ll be the judge i guess?), from the south south (can travel during weekends to hangout with you! ako mag-aadjust for you haha)
about you: at least the same age and height (instant turn on to tall kings and older people), working professional, discreet and decent and clean, average to fit body, good conversationalist, can host (if wala, it’s fine we can check-in if we wanna do the thing kaso if we do it often, masyadong costly so i prefer someone with place), easy on the eyes, top (more on gentle side pls + can kiss and suck)
hit me up if interested! please make sure you have read the entire post before messaging. Thanks!
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about me: 5’7, working professional, decent and clean (recently tested as of may 2023 - both HIV and STD), wears eyeglasses, cute (but i’ve had a fair share of rejections as well!), discreet and closeted, average body (i only do home workouts so medyo above average? you’ll be the judge i guess?), from the south south (can travel during weekends to hangout with you! ako mag-aadjust for you haha)
about you: at least the same age and height (instant turn on to tall kings and older people), working professional, discreet and decent and clean, average to fit body, good conversationalist, can host (if wala, it’s fine we can check-in if we wanna do the thing kaso if we do it often, masyadong costly so i prefer someone with place), easy on the eyes, top (more on gentle side pls + can kiss and suck)
hit me up if interested! please make sure you have read the entire post before messaging. Thanks!
2023.06.01 20:05 Nieuman 31 [M4F] San Jose, CA - Seeking wholesome cuddles via Netflix and Nietzsche
Finding people who wanna understand the mysteries of existence and grapple with the big questions of life is a rare thing. But it's through these kind of connections that we're able to illuminate the darkest recesses of our souls and catch a glimpse of the beauty that extends far beyond our own lives.
Proust said that the real voyage of discovery isn't seeking new landscapes, but having new eyes. That's why I enjoy reading about the humanities, philosophy, psychology, science, sociology, history, and other multidisciplinary subjects, because I'm given a new pair of eyes to see a new horizon. I guess in that regard I'm like a wide-eyed kid in the candy store when it comes to books, but rather than candy it's deep discussions that make my heart skip a beat.
Personality-wise, I'm a quiet person who doesn't say much, but inside I'm full of untold stories. Marriagefree, childfree, and petfree, I embody the saying "If you love something set it free" to the T. Looks-wise, I have a slim physique but my mind is a behemoth of curiosity and wonder, churning with tides of questions that even Google can't answer, as I'm constantly seeking answers to everything. And standing at six feet tall, I guess that makes me vertically blessed for contemplating the infinitely vertical possibilities of the universe.
By trade, I'm a humble worker, toiling away at a low paying job, yet my heart remains steadfast in its pursuit of understanding everything. I find solace in books, losing myself in the stories and theories, and I'm seeking to expand my knowledge and to see things I've never imagined before. I may not make six figures or have a six pack, but my mind is rich and robust with ideas about life and everything in between. Who needs moolah when you've got the timeless works of great thinkers throughout history to lose yourself in? Besides, I hear the pages of books taste delicious when you're really hungry.
I prefer DM, not chat. I’m looking to connect with people who share a passion for the things that truly matter in life. Rather than curling up to watch some Netflix we can curl up to read some Nietzsche. Though I wouldn't mind doing both. Netflix and Nietzsche anyone? I hope we can find something wholesome whether we discuss the works of world-historical figures or our own stories.
So if you enjoy learning and reading, please get in touch with me so we can understand each other inside and out, so we can maximize meaning. Let's explore the unexplored and savor the richness of the unknown. Because the beauty of life lies not just on the surface but in the depths of our hearts waiting to be uncovered and understood.
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Proust said that the real voyage of discovery isn't seeking new landscapes, but having new eyes. That's why I enjoy reading about the humanities, philosophy, psychology, science, sociology, history, and other multidisciplinary subjects, because I'm given a new pair of eyes to see a new horizon. I guess in that regard I'm like a wide-eyed kid in the candy store when it comes to books, but rather than candy it's deep discussions that make my heart skip a beat.
Personality-wise, I'm a quiet person who doesn't say much, but inside I'm full of untold stories. Marriagefree, childfree, and petfree, I embody the saying "If you love something set it free" to the T. Looks-wise, I have a slim physique but my mind is a behemoth of curiosity and wonder, churning with tides of questions that even Google can't answer, as I'm constantly seeking answers to everything. And standing at six feet tall, I guess that makes me vertically blessed for contemplating the infinitely vertical possibilities of the universe.
By trade, I'm a humble worker, toiling away at a low paying job, yet my heart remains steadfast in its pursuit of understanding everything. I find solace in books, losing myself in the stories and theories, and I'm seeking to expand my knowledge and to see things I've never imagined before. I may not make six figures or have a six pack, but my mind is rich and robust with ideas about life and everything in between. Who needs moolah when you've got the timeless works of great thinkers throughout history to lose yourself in? Besides, I hear the pages of books taste delicious when you're really hungry.
I prefer DM, not chat. I’m looking to connect with people who share a passion for the things that truly matter in life. Rather than curling up to watch some Netflix we can curl up to read some Nietzsche. Though I wouldn't mind doing both. Netflix and Nietzsche anyone? I hope we can find something wholesome whether we discuss the works of world-historical figures or our own stories.
So if you enjoy learning and reading, please get in touch with me so we can understand each other inside and out, so we can maximize meaning. Let's explore the unexplored and savor the richness of the unknown. Because the beauty of life lies not just on the surface but in the depths of our hearts waiting to be uncovered and understood.
2023.06.01 20:05 Low_Ad_1576 Went to college and he immediately cheated
For context, I was with my ex for nearly four years. I was a couple months older than him so I was in a different grade.
I (20F) met my then boyfriend (19M) in my sophomore (his freshman) year of high school. We dated throughout the rest of high school and into my first year of college. I stayed close to home for college (about 30 minutes) not for him or anything that’s just how it worked out. It was roughy at first since we went through going from seeing each other everyday to once a week but we made it through. Then we get to his freshman year. He goes to a school 2-3 hours away from home and me so we started long distance. It was ok for awhile but after a small argument I noticed a big disconnect. We were calling less, texts were not as in depth, and (the big red flag looking back) I fell from his number one best friend on snap. I called him one day asking who replaced me and he said it was his new friend, let’s call her Emily. At first I said “oh do you want to try to fix that?” He said “you’re never on Snapchat anyway so it’s not a big deal, I snap you first when I get on the app but she just snaps back faster that’s why she’s there.” I was really hurt that he didn’t want to fix it because the same thing happened over the summer to me with one of my coworkers and I actively tried to fix it. But I brushed it off and we continued on. A few more weeks go by and it comes up to the week of his birthday. We plan for me to go up to visit him for a weekend to celebrate. I spend $100 on train tickets and $80 on a gift (I wasn’t working at the time because I was back at school so to me it was a lot). I go up to his school and immediately I knew something was off. We barely got a second alone, I had to ask for a kiss or a hug, just overall it didn’t feel like it did over the last 4 years. The night goes on and we meet his friends who all barely talk to me, look at me, or engage with me. Whenever they do look at me it’s a look of pity almost. The night goes on and we go to meet his friends to watch a movie and guess who’s there, Emily. The whole time she looks at me sideways, she stares at my hand when I’m holding my ex’s hand, and she just looks awkward and unhappy this whole time. We start watching a movie and I’m not super interested so I go on my phone. While I’m doing that my ex puts his hood up and moves his arm away from me. I notice and look up and Emily is completely turned around in her seat smiling at him. I grab his arm pull it back around me and put his hood down. After the movie ended I told him I was tired and wanted to go to bed. The whole night he barely touched me and slept with his elbow in my back the whole night. We woke up the next day and went to brunch and I thought everything was ok because I brought up some concerns with emily and he said “ok I understand we don’t have to see her anymore while your here.” We get back to his campus and we start doing hw with his friends while they watch a baseball game. I say I have to go to the bathroom and after he says “hey can we go to my room I forgot something.” We go up and he immediately hits me with “I want to break up.” I was taken a back and just in complete shock and I asked why. He didn’t give me a complete straight answer so I said “is this because of Emily.” And he said “it’s not just her.” So I said “What did you do with her?” He said “we kissed and I have feelings for her.” I immediately left the room and started bawling in the hallway. I called my friend who lives near his school and begged her to come get me. She calmed me down told me to go pack my stuff and leave as soon as I can and she’ll get me an Uber. I go back in and throw my 2 year old promise right at him, my necklace with his name on it, and my bracelet with his name on it. I started screaming at him. His whole floor heard me. He said all his friends knew that he cheated and was probably going to break up with me this weekend. I told him he treated me like shit and no matter who came into my life I always made sure he was my priority and I knew no matter what I loved him more than anything and I would never let anyone one in between us. I told him him and emily deserved each other and I hope she cheats on you so you can feel the pain I felt in that moment. I left and haven’t heard from him since. Him and emily started dating within a week of us breaking up so I’m sure there was more than just a kiss. She started posting TikToks of all these photos and memories together so I was getting played for way longer than he made it seem. He was at college for five weeks. And in those five weeks he was able to fall out of love for me, act like the last four years meant nothing, and cheat on me. Fuck him and fuck her. He didn’t hide that he had a gf he had pics of us everywhere. He’s nothing but a liar and a cheater and is selfish. She’s nothing but a homewrecker and a bitch who likes to stalk my Instagram.
This happened in October of 2022, it’s now June 2023. As far as I know they’re still dating. But who gives a fuck. I have a new boyfriend who treats me much better and it overall just better for me. Even with my happiness, I can’t help but hope both of them end up getting hurt.
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I (20F) met my then boyfriend (19M) in my sophomore (his freshman) year of high school. We dated throughout the rest of high school and into my first year of college. I stayed close to home for college (about 30 minutes) not for him or anything that’s just how it worked out. It was roughy at first since we went through going from seeing each other everyday to once a week but we made it through. Then we get to his freshman year. He goes to a school 2-3 hours away from home and me so we started long distance. It was ok for awhile but after a small argument I noticed a big disconnect. We were calling less, texts were not as in depth, and (the big red flag looking back) I fell from his number one best friend on snap. I called him one day asking who replaced me and he said it was his new friend, let’s call her Emily. At first I said “oh do you want to try to fix that?” He said “you’re never on Snapchat anyway so it’s not a big deal, I snap you first when I get on the app but she just snaps back faster that’s why she’s there.” I was really hurt that he didn’t want to fix it because the same thing happened over the summer to me with one of my coworkers and I actively tried to fix it. But I brushed it off and we continued on. A few more weeks go by and it comes up to the week of his birthday. We plan for me to go up to visit him for a weekend to celebrate. I spend $100 on train tickets and $80 on a gift (I wasn’t working at the time because I was back at school so to me it was a lot). I go up to his school and immediately I knew something was off. We barely got a second alone, I had to ask for a kiss or a hug, just overall it didn’t feel like it did over the last 4 years. The night goes on and we meet his friends who all barely talk to me, look at me, or engage with me. Whenever they do look at me it’s a look of pity almost. The night goes on and we go to meet his friends to watch a movie and guess who’s there, Emily. The whole time she looks at me sideways, she stares at my hand when I’m holding my ex’s hand, and she just looks awkward and unhappy this whole time. We start watching a movie and I’m not super interested so I go on my phone. While I’m doing that my ex puts his hood up and moves his arm away from me. I notice and look up and Emily is completely turned around in her seat smiling at him. I grab his arm pull it back around me and put his hood down. After the movie ended I told him I was tired and wanted to go to bed. The whole night he barely touched me and slept with his elbow in my back the whole night. We woke up the next day and went to brunch and I thought everything was ok because I brought up some concerns with emily and he said “ok I understand we don’t have to see her anymore while your here.” We get back to his campus and we start doing hw with his friends while they watch a baseball game. I say I have to go to the bathroom and after he says “hey can we go to my room I forgot something.” We go up and he immediately hits me with “I want to break up.” I was taken a back and just in complete shock and I asked why. He didn’t give me a complete straight answer so I said “is this because of Emily.” And he said “it’s not just her.” So I said “What did you do with her?” He said “we kissed and I have feelings for her.” I immediately left the room and started bawling in the hallway. I called my friend who lives near his school and begged her to come get me. She calmed me down told me to go pack my stuff and leave as soon as I can and she’ll get me an Uber. I go back in and throw my 2 year old promise right at him, my necklace with his name on it, and my bracelet with his name on it. I started screaming at him. His whole floor heard me. He said all his friends knew that he cheated and was probably going to break up with me this weekend. I told him he treated me like shit and no matter who came into my life I always made sure he was my priority and I knew no matter what I loved him more than anything and I would never let anyone one in between us. I told him him and emily deserved each other and I hope she cheats on you so you can feel the pain I felt in that moment. I left and haven’t heard from him since. Him and emily started dating within a week of us breaking up so I’m sure there was more than just a kiss. She started posting TikToks of all these photos and memories together so I was getting played for way longer than he made it seem. He was at college for five weeks. And in those five weeks he was able to fall out of love for me, act like the last four years meant nothing, and cheat on me. Fuck him and fuck her. He didn’t hide that he had a gf he had pics of us everywhere. He’s nothing but a liar and a cheater and is selfish. She’s nothing but a homewrecker and a bitch who likes to stalk my Instagram.
This happened in October of 2022, it’s now June 2023. As far as I know they’re still dating. But who gives a fuck. I have a new boyfriend who treats me much better and it overall just better for me. Even with my happiness, I can’t help but hope both of them end up getting hurt.
2023.06.01 20:05 Nieuman 31 [M4F] San Jose, CA - Seeking a wholesome connection via Netflix and Nietzsche
Finding people who wanna understand the mysteries of existence and grapple with the big questions of life is a rare thing. But it's through these kind of connections that we're able to illuminate the darkest recesses of our souls and catch a glimpse of the beauty that extends far beyond our own lives.
Proust said that the real voyage of discovery isn't seeking new landscapes, but having new eyes. That's why I enjoy reading about the humanities, philosophy, psychology, science, sociology, history, and other multidisciplinary subjects, because I'm given a new pair of eyes to see a new horizon. I guess in that regard I'm like a wide-eyed kid in the candy store when it comes to books, but rather than candy it's deep discussions that make my heart skip a beat.
Personality-wise, I'm a quiet person who doesn't say much, but inside I'm full of untold stories. Marriagefree, childfree, and petfree, I embody the saying "If you love something set it free" to the T. Looks-wise, I have a slim physique but my mind is a behemoth of curiosity and wonder, churning with tides of questions that even Google can't answer, as I'm constantly seeking answers to everything. And standing at six feet tall, I guess that makes me vertically blessed for contemplating the infinitely vertical possibilities of the universe.
By trade, I'm a humble worker, toiling away at a low paying job, yet my heart remains steadfast in its pursuit of understanding everything. I find solace in books, losing myself in the stories and theories, and I'm seeking to expand my knowledge and to see things I've never imagined before. I may not make six figures or have a six pack, but my mind is rich and robust with ideas about life and everything in between. Who needs moolah when you've got the timeless works of great thinkers throughout history to lose yourself in? Besides, I hear the pages of books taste delicious when you're really hungry.
I prefer DM, not chat. I’m looking to connect with people who share a passion for the things that truly matter in life. Rather than curling up to watch some Netflix we can curl up to read some Nietzsche. Though I wouldn't mind doing both. Netflix and Nietzsche anyone? I hope we can find something wholesome whether we discuss the works of world-historical figures or our own stories.
So if you enjoy learning and reading, please get in touch with me so we can understand each other inside and out, so we can maximize meaning. Let's explore the unexplored and savor the richness of the unknown. Because the beauty of life lies not just on the surface but in the depths of our hearts waiting to be uncovered and understood.
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Proust said that the real voyage of discovery isn't seeking new landscapes, but having new eyes. That's why I enjoy reading about the humanities, philosophy, psychology, science, sociology, history, and other multidisciplinary subjects, because I'm given a new pair of eyes to see a new horizon. I guess in that regard I'm like a wide-eyed kid in the candy store when it comes to books, but rather than candy it's deep discussions that make my heart skip a beat.
Personality-wise, I'm a quiet person who doesn't say much, but inside I'm full of untold stories. Marriagefree, childfree, and petfree, I embody the saying "If you love something set it free" to the T. Looks-wise, I have a slim physique but my mind is a behemoth of curiosity and wonder, churning with tides of questions that even Google can't answer, as I'm constantly seeking answers to everything. And standing at six feet tall, I guess that makes me vertically blessed for contemplating the infinitely vertical possibilities of the universe.
By trade, I'm a humble worker, toiling away at a low paying job, yet my heart remains steadfast in its pursuit of understanding everything. I find solace in books, losing myself in the stories and theories, and I'm seeking to expand my knowledge and to see things I've never imagined before. I may not make six figures or have a six pack, but my mind is rich and robust with ideas about life and everything in between. Who needs moolah when you've got the timeless works of great thinkers throughout history to lose yourself in? Besides, I hear the pages of books taste delicious when you're really hungry.
I prefer DM, not chat. I’m looking to connect with people who share a passion for the things that truly matter in life. Rather than curling up to watch some Netflix we can curl up to read some Nietzsche. Though I wouldn't mind doing both. Netflix and Nietzsche anyone? I hope we can find something wholesome whether we discuss the works of world-historical figures or our own stories.
So if you enjoy learning and reading, please get in touch with me so we can understand each other inside and out, so we can maximize meaning. Let's explore the unexplored and savor the richness of the unknown. Because the beauty of life lies not just on the surface but in the depths of our hearts waiting to be uncovered and understood.
2023.06.01 20:05 themcementality Questions about bulk
Hey y'all, I'm looking for some clarifications on the finer points of the bulk system, I would appreciate any help.
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- Does matching bulk give the encumbered condition, or do you have to go past it? For example, a character with +0 strength is encumbered at 5 bulk, or 6?
- If the answer is the latter, do light items push you over the limit? Using the above example, would someone be encumbered at 5, 3L bulk? Or only 6?
2023.06.01 20:05 NecessaryPressure881 Hybrid physical therapy program “bad students”
( If you don’t want to read this all. I am asking people who graduated undergrad with a GPA between 3.0 - 3.25 and were accepted or completed a hybrid DPT program how was your experience and what program did you attend)
Hey, so I’m a 23yo male who just graduated from undergrad with a degree in exercise science. I got the degree to pursue a career in physical therapy. I graduated with a 3.23 cumulative and 3.0-3.18 in program prerequisites. I’m taking a gap year to accumulate observation hours and maybe take the GRE. (I am not writing this post to ask if I will get into a program) Further, I am nervous about the actual coursework of a DPT program. I KNOW ITS NOT GOING TO BE EASY.
To give some context of my acidemic career. I moved to america in elementary school and I was behind grade level up until my freshmen year in college. School was tough for me and I thought college was going to be harder. However I was wrong, I quickly realized how dumb everyone was. I’m not sure if it was because I knew I was behind so I worked harder or if nobody was actually trying. I graduated High school with a 3.3 GPA (some dumb classes) and in my first couple semesters of college I had 3.5. I thought this is just community college so I guess it wasn’t hard. I than transferred to towson university to get the rest of my credits. I was told the school was not hard either but I didnt think I would have a 3.66 so easily there. Eventually I realized how much other people were stuggling, cheating, and overall putting in what I considered low effort. I started to do the same because I just need to get above a 3.0. I was also upset for being pressured into that major because it wasn’t very useful outside of PT. I could’ve just taken my prerequisites and gotten another degree…. Moreover, In the corse of one and a half semesters. My 3.66 dropped to a 3.23. This was mainly because of my coresework in one semester with Chem 2. I had to buss my ass to get a B- in lecture and didn’t realize I got a C in the Lab. The attention I put in that class drained me and lowered my performance in other classes. Regardless, I never had to retake classes and I rarely found most of my classes difficult. I really just felt like I was being held hostage in those dumb ass classes that were just fillers for me to graduate so I took the classes less seriously.
Now that I’m looking to apply to a DPT hybrid program. I am having imposter syndrome. All of the information on the internet about pt school is not relatable to me. Like Susie you have a whole YouTube channel about you PT journey and you have over a 3.5gpa you’re fine… I need someone that relates to the people who have a gpa under a 3.25 that considers themself lazy but hardworking enough to get through 2years of hell. Like I’m the kind of lazy that runs their own business because they think it’s inconvenient working for someone else. Like I know I can’t bullshit my way though it but I feel like I’ve bullshitted my way though life and I’ve been doing fine. It just feels like everyone’s gatekeeping and telling me things to discourage me but their either doing fine or Already done. Like I said im 23 I’m young and my parents will let me live rent free so I don’t need to work and if I work it’s already on my own time… how hard is it going to be for me compared to the people that are working full time and have kids and doing this.
IM STRESSED HELP😂😭😭😭 Drop your discord if you wanna have a conversation!!
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Hey, so I’m a 23yo male who just graduated from undergrad with a degree in exercise science. I got the degree to pursue a career in physical therapy. I graduated with a 3.23 cumulative and 3.0-3.18 in program prerequisites. I’m taking a gap year to accumulate observation hours and maybe take the GRE. (I am not writing this post to ask if I will get into a program) Further, I am nervous about the actual coursework of a DPT program. I KNOW ITS NOT GOING TO BE EASY.
To give some context of my acidemic career. I moved to america in elementary school and I was behind grade level up until my freshmen year in college. School was tough for me and I thought college was going to be harder. However I was wrong, I quickly realized how dumb everyone was. I’m not sure if it was because I knew I was behind so I worked harder or if nobody was actually trying. I graduated High school with a 3.3 GPA (some dumb classes) and in my first couple semesters of college I had 3.5. I thought this is just community college so I guess it wasn’t hard. I than transferred to towson university to get the rest of my credits. I was told the school was not hard either but I didnt think I would have a 3.66 so easily there. Eventually I realized how much other people were stuggling, cheating, and overall putting in what I considered low effort. I started to do the same because I just need to get above a 3.0. I was also upset for being pressured into that major because it wasn’t very useful outside of PT. I could’ve just taken my prerequisites and gotten another degree…. Moreover, In the corse of one and a half semesters. My 3.66 dropped to a 3.23. This was mainly because of my coresework in one semester with Chem 2. I had to buss my ass to get a B- in lecture and didn’t realize I got a C in the Lab. The attention I put in that class drained me and lowered my performance in other classes. Regardless, I never had to retake classes and I rarely found most of my classes difficult. I really just felt like I was being held hostage in those dumb ass classes that were just fillers for me to graduate so I took the classes less seriously.
Now that I’m looking to apply to a DPT hybrid program. I am having imposter syndrome. All of the information on the internet about pt school is not relatable to me. Like Susie you have a whole YouTube channel about you PT journey and you have over a 3.5gpa you’re fine… I need someone that relates to the people who have a gpa under a 3.25 that considers themself lazy but hardworking enough to get through 2years of hell. Like I’m the kind of lazy that runs their own business because they think it’s inconvenient working for someone else. Like I know I can’t bullshit my way though it but I feel like I’ve bullshitted my way though life and I’ve been doing fine. It just feels like everyone’s gatekeeping and telling me things to discourage me but their either doing fine or Already done. Like I said im 23 I’m young and my parents will let me live rent free so I don’t need to work and if I work it’s already on my own time… how hard is it going to be for me compared to the people that are working full time and have kids and doing this.
IM STRESSED HELP😂😭😭😭 Drop your discord if you wanna have a conversation!!
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2023.06.01 20:04 fozyyaa My sister called me an AH due to a joke.
Disclaimer ! Mention of Rape and Sexual assault.
Let me get straight to the point. Me (18f) and my (16f) sister were watching a YouTube short. It was a standup comedian and he made a joke that goes as follows. ‘I can end my career in just 8 words’ ‘How can you prevent rape? just say yes’ The crowd ended up laughing and he mentioned to a random person, ‘I know you don’t wanna laugh, well ironically I’m forcing you’.
My sister went on to say how disgusted she is by everyone in the crowd and how they should not be laughing. I replied with the following ‘what if people who were raped found it funny, and they happened to be in the crowd?’ She claimed they wouldn’t find it funny. I told her some might, and they can judge if the joke is funny or not. She carried on to say that people who were raped won’t find it funny and I claimed that I’m pretty sure some would. Like any dark joke, some would find it funny, some wouldn’t. As in some depressed people might find a depressed joke funny some won’t. Some people who were abused might find a joke about abuse funny some won’t. She said they’re not the same thing. She claimed that those who have been raped shouldn’t be laughing at the joke since it invalidates others who don’t find it funny.
I told her she can’t claim that rape victims shouldn’t be laughing, they can laugh if they damn want to !
now I need to know if I’m in the wrong.
Disclaimer : I’m not saying the joke he made was okay and neither am I invalidating rape victims . All I mean is that it’s up to the rape victims to decide weather they find it funny or not.
My sister will now write her side of the story to give an inside from both views.
Her side: Depression and rape isn’t the same thing, making a joke about mental illness and making a joke about something so horrifically traumatic isn’t comparable. Even if it’s dark humour, how can a comedian even joke about something so utterly disgusting. Rape is an ongoing problem that needs to be taken seriously, how can the comedian (I’m assuming hasn’t experienced SA or rape) say a 'joke' about rape and invalidate people whose LIVES changed because of that. By saying 'JUST say yes' ?!
As if u should have just let it be, let them rape you, because then you give them consent to rape u ?! Even though getting pressured to say yes is still rape.
How do you think those victims feel ? getting pressured, they’re STILL rape victims and he isn’t letting them be victims. Even if he was SA he shouldn’t be joking about that so publicly (even if it is a coping mechanism). Victims who watch behind the screen will feel as if there assault isn’t an issue or a problem (even if they feel so, by the way the crowd bursted out laughing.) It’s so wrong to laugh at such a horrid joke and think it’s ok, his career should have ended right then and there, he knew what he said was so uncalled for and so ridiculously wrong.
Disclaimer I’m not saying I don’t think rape victim shouldn’t be laughing at those jokes (even though I don’t understand why they would) I’m saying they shouldn’t laugh so publicly (by a person who was clearly being so disrespectful over the matter) as it invalidates other victims.
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Let me get straight to the point. Me (18f) and my (16f) sister were watching a YouTube short. It was a standup comedian and he made a joke that goes as follows. ‘I can end my career in just 8 words’ ‘How can you prevent rape? just say yes’ The crowd ended up laughing and he mentioned to a random person, ‘I know you don’t wanna laugh, well ironically I’m forcing you’.
My sister went on to say how disgusted she is by everyone in the crowd and how they should not be laughing. I replied with the following ‘what if people who were raped found it funny, and they happened to be in the crowd?’ She claimed they wouldn’t find it funny. I told her some might, and they can judge if the joke is funny or not. She carried on to say that people who were raped won’t find it funny and I claimed that I’m pretty sure some would. Like any dark joke, some would find it funny, some wouldn’t. As in some depressed people might find a depressed joke funny some won’t. Some people who were abused might find a joke about abuse funny some won’t. She said they’re not the same thing. She claimed that those who have been raped shouldn’t be laughing at the joke since it invalidates others who don’t find it funny.
I told her she can’t claim that rape victims shouldn’t be laughing, they can laugh if they damn want to !
now I need to know if I’m in the wrong.
Disclaimer : I’m not saying the joke he made was okay and neither am I invalidating rape victims . All I mean is that it’s up to the rape victims to decide weather they find it funny or not.
My sister will now write her side of the story to give an inside from both views.
Her side: Depression and rape isn’t the same thing, making a joke about mental illness and making a joke about something so horrifically traumatic isn’t comparable. Even if it’s dark humour, how can a comedian even joke about something so utterly disgusting. Rape is an ongoing problem that needs to be taken seriously, how can the comedian (I’m assuming hasn’t experienced SA or rape) say a 'joke' about rape and invalidate people whose LIVES changed because of that. By saying 'JUST say yes' ?!
As if u should have just let it be, let them rape you, because then you give them consent to rape u ?! Even though getting pressured to say yes is still rape.
How do you think those victims feel ? getting pressured, they’re STILL rape victims and he isn’t letting them be victims. Even if he was SA he shouldn’t be joking about that so publicly (even if it is a coping mechanism). Victims who watch behind the screen will feel as if there assault isn’t an issue or a problem (even if they feel so, by the way the crowd bursted out laughing.) It’s so wrong to laugh at such a horrid joke and think it’s ok, his career should have ended right then and there, he knew what he said was so uncalled for and so ridiculously wrong.
Disclaimer I’m not saying I don’t think rape victim shouldn’t be laughing at those jokes (even though I don’t understand why they would) I’m saying they shouldn’t laugh so publicly (by a person who was clearly being so disrespectful over the matter) as it invalidates other victims.
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2023.06.01 20:04 Pretzelicious About returning BP items.
 | Hello Crema and redditors. submitted by Pretzelicious to PlayTemtem [link] [comments] I had a thought the other day and realized how close we are to 1 year anniversary of 1.0. (Time sure flies, doesn't it?) Along with this, I remembered Crema's statement about returning BP items: "We are going to be including the content of the Tamer Pass in the rotation of the Premium Store a year after it has run its original course." So this means 1.5 we see "Launch Party" items in the store.. hmm. And of course after this I remembered my suggestions in the old forums about returning BP items. So I wanted to revisit that and I now have different idea so I hope you can hear me out. Let's get something out of the way first, I know there are strongs opinion on how the store and BP operate but I have no intentions of using this post to throw the words FOMO and greedy around. I know Crema can make good changes, just like the reduction in emote prices and removing the luma dyes from the shop instead to be placed in a play to adquire shop. So here's hoping for more of those positives. Here's how I will present this post: I will revisit thoughts I posted in the forums to build an argument before detailing my suggestion. My first argument in the old post is that: "For items that originally were not gonna make more money outside of their planned timeframe of 3 months, it makes no sense to bring them back at a disproportionate price." Meaning: a lot of players would be incredibly upset if the Mouflank steed went into the shop at 1600-2000 novas when players could obtain it in a bundle with a lot of other cool items for half that price. This is a "between a rock and a hard place" kind of situation, because integrating them into the shop at a fraction of the other cosmetics would also cause uproar directed at the other cosmetics' prices. It would blur the line of "These items take time and resources to make" in a very bad way. Which is an already disliked argument by the community. People already dislike the massive pool that feeds the daily rotation for several different reasons that have been repeated enough. And second, there are a LOT of misc things that unless they are priced at something like 16 novas, they will become more expensive than the original bundle of 750 novas and I don't see that being recieved well. Also it is not clarified in the post if the items in the free section of the pass will be added to the shop. It goes without saying that if these items went from "Free to Play" to the Rotating shop there would be a lot of backslash so I really hope this was not part of your solution. But until there are signs of happening otherwise I must plead: Do not do that, please. So while randomly thinking about these things, I had a thought. What if the BP were brought back in a separate part of the shop as tracks you can purchase and progress. Exactly as we purchase them right now. So picture this, 1.5 rolls out and we have a new tab in the Shop or BP window that lists previous BP premium track(s). I have considered that the items in the free track of each BP should be added to the Trainer's Paradise instead. My reasoning behind this is that you're still making the cosmetics accesible at all times while still rewarding the active players during the original lifespan BP. I guess it would come down to personal preference if someone would like to complete the 60 levels of the free pass for an item rather than spending feathers for it. I personally would like another Donut bag, but I don't wanna do another 60 levels just for it...What are your thoughts on the free track items added to TP instead? Since I don't believe both options would be possible. Other specifics to consider: -The purchase of the Legacy Pass (I don't have another name for them) would be permanent. -Only one could be purchaseable at a time after the current season's BP was completed. I don't know how Crema stores or processes this information. But I can see bugs happening if someone tries to complete the current season BP + 2 others. Would EXP count for all? Just for one? Would it be split between the ones active? It might be an incovenience for players to have to finish one before purchasing another but I feel this would give the least amount of space possible for messy situations. Thoughts? -They would cost the same amount of novas as normal BP. The one concern I have with this idea is what would happen with folks who bought a Premium Track and couldn't finish it during the respective season. I don't think that information is stored? I have no idea. Would they have to repurchase it? In the perfect scenario they would have their progress saved and able to finish it when the Legacy Pass is added. Bottom line is, Crema please rethink how you will bring back BP items because I think just adding them to the shop is putting more pressure in a lot of pain points with the community and creating new ones. My suggestion is not perfect by any means, and I know people will whine and complain regardless of what you do, but the most important question to answer is: "Will the return of these items will feel fair to those who missed out on them?" If Crema is adding this items to combat FOMO but doesn't view it from the player perspective, it will be futile. I am sorry for sounding like a doomer, but the last thing I want is for Crema to get more flak for doing something in good faith. Sample n00b interface. Mad Photoshop skillz |
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